Would you rather lose all of your old memories, or never be able to make new one

@hunibani (720)
Philippines
February 14, 2012 3:35am CST
All the bad memories I got lately, I just wish I can delete them all. :( I wish it didn't happen, I wish i was there to help him. Hmm. :(
5 responses
@megamatt (14327)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Talk about a tough question. And a decision that I really hope that I never really had to make. On one hand, I have had my share of bad experiences in my life. There are just going to be a lot of times where there are days where I wish that I could rather delete from my brain forever. But I wouldn't really learn some valuable lessons. Painful lessons for sure but they are still rather valuable. On the other hand, there are just many more good experiences that are going to come. Therefore, I don't want to really erase all of the bad ones, but at the same time, I want to really make new ones. Of course, I do wonder if I was unable to have any new memories, whether the good would outweigh the bad. That is just something to really think about and it is scary to think that I don't know the answer.
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
I've thought of this. All I want now is to make new memories but ALL GOOD ONE. Wish I can do. But this is life.
14 Feb 12
experience teaches you to be wiser and stronger.Leave behind your memories and concentrate what lies ahead,there is no way you can undo things.so stop looking back instead,look ahead.and try to enjoy life.start each day cheerfully.Everybody makes mistakes,so dont blame yourself.what is over is over,what is yet to come,only you can make it beautiful.
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
I am trying my best. Indeed this problems lately made me stronger and wiser. But now this is too good to be true. Ppfff
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
all things that happens to us have a purpose... maybe God has a better purpose for you.. just bare in mind that God loves you and always asked for his guidance and strength. :)
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Thank you Nyang. Although lately the experienced is too harsh for me and to my family, I didn't hate God. I still do pray and believe. Maybe he has a better plan for me.
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
14 Feb 12
Most of my old memories - may be good or bad or too good and too bad are always an experience for me in the present times. Only because of these reasons, I feel keep all my memories as it is. We all may have good/bad experiences in our life which can be ever remembered and feel never to remember also. However, being a human this mixed experience in our life is our asset for this short period of life time. Accept what we feel good and simply ignore the one which we never want to see or remember again. Best regards, Thank-s
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes. I cannot do anything about it, unless im going to have amnesia. But the feeling might be the same if i have. But well this bad experience can you make you stronger and be a better person.
@yanzalong (10174)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
I don't think I have to lose all those old memories just to start a new one. Let's bygone be bygone. Am I right?