How are you old Mother and Father?
By dilrajj57
@dilrajj57 (1757)
Pakistan
February 14, 2012 8:06am CST
Hi Friend, Every Father and Sweeeeeeeet Mother every time, every moment, every second keep care of their kids/children, for their foods, for their cloths, for their smiling, for their sickness still their young age, still their marriage, still their lifetime. But when we got married then what happened you think about this, When or Sweet Mother and Father reached to old age then what happened to the by us, or they then living with us, with you, or they passing their breath alone with under the Government pieces of Food? reply tell me how are your Sweet parents?
4 responses
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
14 Feb 12
hi hunibani,
Very sad for, You hate the world as you father was unlimited love for you and now he is not for you, therefore you cant believe on the world that you received as love as you father was with you. but don't worry, you make your self a strong tiger for life in world.
@deodavid (4147)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hey there hunibani,
I t is really sad that you lost your father a couple of weeks ago, condolence to you and your family i hope that in time the pain will heal and yet the pain will be a scar forever, i know that your father will be deeply missed by you and your family i hope you can try to move on one step at a time at your own pace, take care now and i wish you and your family well.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
20 Feb 12
yes deedee328 and deodavid friends,
really sad for loss, but as this is the way for everyone that one day will go from here, and its very hard to loss any in the family and relative.
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
my father and my mother are good they're very supportive in all the things..i'm no longer at my parents shelter since i got married. but i see to it that every weekend my family(hubby and child) will stay with them so that they can play and cuddle with their grandson... :)
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
15 Feb 12
My mother went to be with the Lord a little over two and a half years ago, but my father is alive and well. I have been blessed with wonderful parents.
My father will be 70years old in May. He lives well on his social security because he and my mother worked hard and planned well for their future.
I am married, so like many of you, I do not live with my dad. My husband and I did move closer to the town that my dad and his mom live in so that we would be able to get there faster if there was an emergency.
I call my dad every single day. I make a point of going to visit him at least three days a week. He has COPD. Because of that and his age, I worry when he doesn't answer his phone or the message I have left for him within about 30 minutes after I have called. He lives 10 minutes from my house and I do not hesitate to take a trip over there when I do not hear from him. You hear stories of elderly people who die and no one notices for several days. I do not want dad to be one of those people.
When my mother was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer, I vowed that neither of my parents would be alone at the time of her passing. I pratically moved into their house for five and a half months.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
20 Feb 12
Hi nyang1984,
Thanks for response, you said your father and your mother are good but now many be not remain shelter longer due to got married. now you should pray for their longlife.
Hi deedee328,
very happy that you parents are alive and good wonderful parents for you. you said that you now not with them and you got married, but tale care your parents.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hello, dilrajj57! 
My mother is already 62 and my father is 70. We no longer live with them but we always see to it that we have constant communication with them. They have cellular phone. My mother knows how to text and call because I spent almost one month teaching her everything about cellular phone. It wasn't easy for she's always getting confused on how to use cellphone. It's her first time, and she's not used to this kind of technology. It's worth it for after a month, my mother is already a cellphone savvy. 
Aside from communication, our financial support is never ending. It is a tradition in our country. We can never leave our parents in home for the aged. When they get older and can no longer take care of themselves, we'll hire nurse and other helpers to take care of them. But definitely, not in home for the aged. Aside from tradition, it's also love for our parents. We love them so much, and we can never abandon them like other people are doing.
My mother is already 62 and my father is 70. We no longer live with them but we always see to it that we have constant communication with them. They have cellular phone. My mother knows how to text and call because I spent almost one month teaching her everything about cellular phone. It wasn't easy for she's always getting confused on how to use cellphone. It's her first time, and she's not used to this kind of technology. It's worth it for after a month, my mother is already a cellphone savvy.
Aside from communication, our financial support is never ending. It is a tradition in our country. We can never leave our parents in home for the aged. When they get older and can no longer take care of themselves, we'll hire nurse and other helpers to take care of them. But definitely, not in home for the aged. Aside from tradition, it's also love for our parents. We love them so much, and we can never abandon them like other people are doing. 1 person likes this
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
15 Feb 12
Thank you for your nice response about Father and Mother that you struggled hard with your mother to know about cell phone, Really when parents reached to the age above from 60, their behavior made as like as children and a they mind as like children. therefore we should keep deep care to deal with them.
@deodavid (4147)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
Hi there dilrajj57,
Me i try to contact them every once in a while, my father is back here in our country and im happy but i cant stay with him all the time because he stay's at my step mom's house and it is very crowded in there i am always free to stay but there is no place to sleep except for the couch so i guess ill just visit when i can, for my mom am still managing to pay for her even with my low income but it is very nice though we dont talk a lot i say i love you every chance i get.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
20 Feb 12
ok friend you first make happy to me that you happy for your father, but you said that you cannot stay with him as he stay with your step mom's house and due to crowd you not stay with them, but please take care of your parents and take care of your step mom too now she is your mom.
