who is correct?
February 27, 2012 4:30pm CST
A friend confided this to me. A close friend of her husband's family who came from another province came to her and asked her to accompany her to a government office near her office. They went there and there they got what the close friend wanted. This friend is a high ranking official at her office. When they went to that office, they happen to meet her husband. Her husband and this lady from another province are really close that they treated each other as relatives. Since the husband and the lady from another province were talking the friend offered to go to the other building for the payment of the document they got. That was successfully taken so she went back to her province. Then when they went home, husband said nothing. Now the husband became drunk, he reprimanded her wife for being an errand girl of the lady from another province. He told her wife, where is her dignity and so forth. She was supposed to make the order to that lady because she (Lady) is lower in rank. The wife replied that when not at the office, she is equal to everybody. But the husband became angry and told her wife why she did that. Was she being blackmailed by that lady? How do you assess this? Please ask questions if it is not clear. I guess I haven't exactly explained the situation here. I need your opinion on this. Thanks.
28 Feb 12
I can understand what you say...what I can't understand is why the husband is so angry at his wife after all he help the woman as well did he not? so why is he angry?...if the woman is lower in rank so must be he because she is a close family friend![of his family]
15 May 12
This friend of yours is indeed down to earth person. Her husband must be proud of her not the other way around. He must have appreciated the kindness of her for helping others who happens to be a close friend of his family. However, I think there must be anything else besides the helping why the husband reacted otherwise. Maybe he has unsettled matters against this girl or her family whom at the eyes of others they are friends but actually not? Just a thought.