So Confusing!

United States
March 2, 2012 5:57am CST
Tell me what you would think? If someone was so in love with someone ans that person knew for a year or more that they were and did not seem to care really but the guy started to come and kiss the girl like every other day and this guy is single and then the girl said I Love you so much to him and asked if if he loved her and he said you know I don't love you and don't feel the way you do about me? Ouch! That really must hurt right? Okay but then the girl was sad so he told here I am starting to feel something for you but I am not sure what it is? Mind you this girl is like so i n love with him she would be willing to give up anything fro him to feel the same, And before all this this girl kind of ignored him and let it go but he came around and kissed her. Mind you that the girl had pushed him away before a little and before he walked out the door he said bye and she said okay by like she did not care anymore and he went to give her a kiss which she was not expecting all, So now here is the confusing part the girl likes to drink sometimes but not a whole lot but when she does she is at home where it is safe and he told her he does not like her drinking so she told him I would stop for you but he said but you like that and she told him I don't care shew could stop for him and then the next couple of days passed and they saw each other only for like five minutes and kissed and hugged and the guy asked her 'Have you beeN Drinking" But the girl was not and had not drank anything that day at all! Now Why would he even care if he did not feel the same way about her as him? Then he told her to give him time and don't push him and she asked if if he could ever love her back and he said 'I think so" Then three days later the same question she asked him and he said Maybe yes Maybe No I am not sure. So Confusing! In a point to my story do you think the guy has any feelings at all for her? O I forgot to add that question was asked to him by tyhe girl a few days ago and his answer was If I did not feel something do you think I would be here right now?
2 responses
@MANJET (84)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 12
It is not really that confusing. To answer this type of question, we have to understand what kind of creatures men are like. It would be very lengthy if I am to detail on each and every types of men. I would just explain about the guy that you are talking about now. This type of guy normally has no idea of what love is. He has no idea on what it means to be committed in a relationship. However, he does like the girl. That is why he kissed her all this while and starting to ask if the girl drinks. This is because he cares and he wants the girl to listen to him. So, he is actually a pretty dominant guy yet does not want to be too committed or serious to think about it. It is up to the girl if she can make this guy love her more and be really serious in the relationship. So far I believe it's positive.
• United States
14 Mar 12
Thanks for your response that was awesome! Have a goo day!
@meljessxena (2319)
• Australia
2 Mar 12
it can be very confusing, but from my own experiences and reading this i think the guy is just leading her on. she needs to just find something else to help her slowly move on to overcome these feelings for him as there will be someone else out there that will love her for what she deserves.
• United States
2 Mar 12
Maybe so I am not sure but I think she should just forget it because he is hurting her so bad!
• Australia
3 Mar 12
yeah it will hurt for a while but if she doesnt try move on sooner it will hurt her more in the long run