Thoughts On Love.....

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sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize & appreciate the people who love us. We miss out the people who love us.We miss out on so many things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslave by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man you love but for the man who loves you more. The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow,but never too far to feel the love deep within our being. To let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving, it only means you allow that person to find his own happines without expecting him to came back. Leeting go is not just setting the other person free, but also setting yourself free from all the bitterness,hatred & anger that keep you in your heart. Do not let the bitternes rare away your strengh and weaken your faith, & never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourslef grow with wisdon bearing it. you may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return, But be careful, for this can sustain life life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace & happines can only with open acceptance of what reality is today,here comes a time in ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becames a part of our everyday lives & eventually consumes our thoughts & actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us that just friendship, we end,our effort are still unrewarded & we end up being sorry for ourselves but you dont have to forget someone you love.What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off living that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Dont let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.Listen, not only to your feelings but reason as well, always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.If you lose love,that doesnt mean that you failed in love. Cry if you have to,but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you. let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does,pray that it maybe the love that stays and last a lifetime.