Do you think there is still LOVE when most men are cheating?

Pasay, Philippines
March 10, 2012 8:52am CST
Okay just let us focus first for MEN who are cheating. Again this is for MEN only please. So I hope no one will post that women are cheating as well because that is also given fact okay? What is your point of view when MEN are cheating? Most men are claiming that they are having LOVE life where in fact they are informing their friends that they don’t want to commit in a relationship just because they want to flirt with different women. I know it is part of their vocal to attract girls that they LOVE that woman but the truth is they are not really loving a woman at all but they just want to mingle with different girls. Do you think this must be considered as LOVE LIFE? I think this must be a FLIRT life.
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• South Korea
11 Mar 12
Well theres a lot of reason why he did it.. and yes sometimes they are really in love to someone but still do a mistake to their partners.. and there is a lot of reason why.. although man are known to be weak.. I think they also know that cheating is of a course a very bad thing to do.. and there are KARMA.. waiting for them... But not all guys were like that..lets keep that in mind..
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• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
I agree not all men are like that. But too bad in my case only few men that I know who are faithful and loyal to their wives. How I wish they are my family. I agree men are known to be weak in terms of having relationship. They thought it is part of strong manliness if they tend to offend their partner and without thinking that the agony of KARMA is waiting for them.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 12
First, i think cheating is a bad choice... so what ever the reason behind the cheating, doesn't make it right to cheat. But i think your view on cheating seems to focus on pervert type of men only... sometimes good men make bad choice too... We often hear how some men change after marriage... i think men isn't the only one who change after marriage, some women change too... They forbid their men to have a social life, and after years of marriage, some men got tired of the condition, and maybe at the right time, other woman see this opportunity to get that man, so instead of the man start flirt with other woman, it's the other woman who flirt and comfort the guy... and then BAM... suddenly you're realize that you already cheat on your wife. This is real life story of a member of my family, but i didn't really like the wife since i was a little kid, so i never feel sorry for what happen to her.
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• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
I just laugh on your post that my view in cheating is focusing on pervert type of men only. It is true some other good men can make a wrong choice too. But then if on the very start they tend to have conviction of what is right and wrong then I believe in the first place they must be strong enough as well on how to defend themselves especially if the woman is not on the right place anymore. In the first place the man must have wise decision if she can tolerate the woman. Some woman wants attention from their husband but I am not saying that what they are doing is tolerable just like the member of your family. Sometimes as well I would understand why it is also happening. I am analyzing it as well.
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
No! Simply because they would not going to cheat if they really love their partners and wife. They would not think of hurting the people that they love if they still really love them. :)
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• Pasay, Philippines
18 Sep 12
I agree, cheating is not involve in loving a person.
@klw5000 (213)
• United States
12 Mar 12
Ok, even though it wants information from men, I still feel the need to reply. I'm not going to say I am right for my actions, it has always been something that worked for me. I have been the other women in relationships for 20 years. Men don't cheat to hurt their spouse or anything like that. Men that cheat have reasons for it. Psychological, physical or even emotional. Typically they need to feel some type of fulfillment that they aren't getting at home. Not loving their wife is usually not the issue. Every relationship I was in lasted more than 3years. Being in that position you see things differently.
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• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
But whatever reason it is the point there is it is still WRONG to cheat and that is always the BOTTOMLINE! You know snatchers have reason as well why they want to steal things from other people. It is because that is their only way to survive including their family and love ones. They may have valid reason but they will still end up in jail when proven guilty. They may have the reason to cheat but men should not expect from their wives to understand their point most especially their excuses at all. Cheat is still cheating. Even if we have the reason to do that during our examination our professor will still give us sanction. Again they can never excuse themselves in doing what is WRONG!
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
cheating is really bad.. i've been there once and it really hurts. but if a person is ready to change, he will and we, girls, can see and feel that.
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@choybel (5057)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
I highly object to your title alone. You seem to be in a conclusion that MOST MEN cheat. It's probably because most of the men you know are like this or you just know very few men. I feel that it is a discrimination to generalize it this way. Anyway, I have nothing else to say with regards to the topic of this discussion because I have not cheated and I have many friends who are loyal as well. I do know some who cheat but I do not see them as most in my list. Have a nice day.
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• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
And I don't think you must have taken it literally when I say most men cheat. What I am trying to point out here is most of them are making it as an EXCUSE to escape from the reality that it is a sin and a wrong choice. Aside from that WHERE IS LOVE? when they want to cheat? They tend to claim that "I love my blah blah and blah blah until the end of the world" then only to find out that tomorrow he has another woman already. Others are even claiming it as MY LOVELIFE I mean what the hell? . I don't know if they have the concept of love is inside your heart not between your legs.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
10 Mar 12
may some have to cheating, but really i have lover not with someone in mylot, really to say that that i not cheating, if she agree i will with him for all lifetime.
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• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
Sorry but I can't get your point. Please explain further. What you mean you have lover not with someone in mylot but then it is not cheating?
@silverfox09 (4724)
• United States
7 Oct 12
Even though most people are cheating these days , their is till love for the lucky few . I dont think if you are in love you will cheat , if that person cheat they didnt really love that person . What I hate is that woman are making it easier for men to cheat on their partner .