People that love to tell me about pregnancy

Oh yeah I know my body better then anyone else next to my doctor maybe. Having two kids with in a year apart I know pregnancy for my body well. Yeah of course this one is a bit different from my last one and I think that is pretty normal but other people don't see it as that because they have never been pregnant or haven't been pregnant in a really long time in such a long time that lots of things have changed but some thing never change. I try to let it go in one ear and out the other and try not to say anything mean or rude back. Some times I have to wait a few minutes before saying anything to that person. I normally bring up to my husband like what they don't think I've done this before. The only differences is that I have different insurance this time which means I get different things at different times then last time and with a history already some of the things they can just skip. I just say what like I've never been pregnant? I'm sure I have since this is baby number two. My experiences from this one and the last one will be different as well as other women. None of my friends have ever been pregnant that I know of and the only two sister in laws have and are pregnant. I know my brothers wife with when pregnant with my daughter was telling me what labor was like and I kept thing you have a c section because you have a panic so I told her your labor will be different then mine I don't want a c section and I didn't have one so I didn't see what all the big fuss was about labor but she has a low pain tolerance. Now my husbands sister she is pregnant and thinks she knows more about pregnancy even though this is her first. Tell her all of the time you never know what is going to happen when your pregnant and you don't know how labor or what its going to be like for you to be a mom till your in labor and the baby is here. How things where for me might not be the same for her. She is till ever young in the head so she says things like that all of the time and I ignore it. She was trying to tell me all kind of things with my daughter and even wished I losted my daughter while I was pregnant with her a year ago because she didn't believe that stress can cause a miscarriage at any time in a pregnancy and she was making me really extremely upset and I told her to stop it but she didn't. That and she was trying to scary by saying my daughter would be in the NICU after she was born because I was 35.5 weeks early and I was in the hospital for 24 hours watch one night at 34 weeks and the reason they gave me shots was because my daughter wouldn't be strong enough. No that is just part of there system all mothers under 36 weeks have to have certain test and shots that doesn't mean anything is wrong with my daughter and that she will need special care. I was right of course she was healthy and can home with me and my husband with in 24 hours.

Yeah that is how I feel. When talking to other moms that have been through a pregnancy its totally different because you'll get all kind of answer to things especially about pregnancy and first time moms they don't get right way that no two pregnancy are the same even after your first kid some times your second or third can be way different then first. I always tell people you know all you need to know about pregnancy if its in the first 5 years of your first or second child. I tell people yeah I know that I've been pregnant before and we aren't doctors so I'm not talking like a doctor so I'm going to talk like a pregnant parent with a second child on the way. This what they tell pregnant moms and if you don't like how its says well then too bad. Some people think they know best because they read a few things or think they no more because they might have more education or something then other person or because they help out with other peoples kids. It's totally different when its your own body and your own baby. When I talk to other moms and they have a question I just tell them about my own experiences and if I think its normal or not what they are going through from what I've read. Of course it hasn't been more then a year since my last child was born so I do have a lot of current information on infants and young toddlers. Some things its just common knowledge but I try not to hurt other pregnant woman's feeling. Yesterday I got told that I'm not in my second trimester till I'm 14 weeks and I'm 13 weeks. My answer to this women was my baby book said I'm in the second trimester as of tomorrow and my doctor said the same thing to me last week when I was at the doctors office. Every doctor and book will say something differently so you can say I'm in the second trimester as of 13.5 weeks which would be 13 weeks and 3 days or 4 days. She her reasoning was that women are pregnant for 41 weeks so there is 13 to 12 weeks for each trimester which is untrue because a full term pregnancy is 40 weeks but doctors will let you go till 42 weeks depending on there comfort and the baby. The 3rd trimester is the short in my opinion because by 36 37 weeks your pretty much full term the rest of the weeks is just extra to make sure the baby is fully developed and that is from what I read if someone reads differently or told by there doctor differently that is fine.