Who is your very first enemy?

Calgary, Alberta
March 18, 2012 12:07pm CST
yay another Nostalgia thread. do you still remember the very first person you hated in your life? Why do you hate that person? Do you still see this person? Why do you think this person became your arch nemesis? The very first person you have a fight with? I think I met my first enemy at school. When I was at the first grade,there was this boy who always bully me, That boy always try to bully me maybe because I am skinny and frail. He actually bully everyone, but one day, I snapped out and punched him in the face. I get to give him a black eye but he was able to beat the crap out of me. I have a size disadvantage. I found out that the real reason this brat is bullying me, he is jelous cos he lives in the slums and he saw that i live in a beautiful house(my house is not beautiful but because its concrete and has 3 stories, he thought its beautiful). Seriously parents, if you have lots of money, dont enroll your kid in a public school... Your kid's classmates will see your kid as the "rich kid" and be bullied. after that incident, my parents comeout of their senses and enrolled me to a private school. I really dont know why my parents enrolled me to a public school when we are not even poor,that moment makes me feel like I am an unwanted child. I recently saw that bully again, he is now a dad of 6 kids and lives in extreme poverty. He works at a junkshop. I still recognized him because his face never changed. I know I should be forgiving, but there is an evil part of me that is LMAO..... He never been highschool I think.
6 responses
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
there is this person i have always hated and wanted nothing to do with her. i hated her all my life. but she is now very far from me but all the things she has done to me is never forgotten and will never be. right now, i don't know how i feel about her, it's like i don't care about her anymore. sad to say she is my sister. she used to hit me, break my wrist, kick, punch and just do whatever she wanted. and yeah i was physically abused and never got to enjoy my childhood. i would even go to school with bleeding nose and swollen lips. sorry about my story, this is just too serious.
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• Calgary, Alberta
19 Mar 12
You know my brother use to beat me too, Thank goodness I am taller and stronger than he is now,and 10 years a go I got my revenge on him. That brother of mine basically gave my classmates idea how to bully me, he punched me in the head multiple times and almost killed me one time, I hate him with a passion. But its weird though that of all nephews and nieces I have, I am closest to his sons. I am the favorite uncle of his sons, I guess its because I am the opposite of their terrible dad.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
i don't want to think about doing bad things to her too like fight her and beat her up too hehehe, i think that just wanting to have nothing to do with her and not see her as my sister anymore is enough. i am done with all those bull she used to do to me. time may change how i feel about her but for now, my anger inside still remains or maybe not anger anymore, she just doesn't exist in my life anymore. she is not a part of it anymore. yeah, the children got nothing to do with what happened to us. i love my nephews and nieces very much too.
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• Calgary, Alberta
21 Mar 12
do you already have nephews and nieces too and are you their favorite aunt as well?
• China
19 Mar 12
It seems none of my friends or classmates expressed me as a enemy. The one I regard as my enemy maybe my mother when I was still very young. But now she is the one I loved most.
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• Calgary, Alberta
19 Mar 12
The reason why I moved out of my parents house 7 years ago, I always have an argument with my mom, she nags a lot. My mom is much nicer in skype. I am in good terms with her now. but my relationship with her is better when its long distance.
31 May 12
My first enemy was my classmate from the model school itself. I changed my school from private to Model. and perhaps i ain't got adjusted to the environment. But I still remember that guy and still quite have a hatred for him in my heart.Almost similar story as you had, But my parents were not reach they were average earners.
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
I remembered it so vividly. It was a boy who was my classmate in my elementary years. he and I were in the same class and we were sued to tease to be a 'couple'. As a girl at that time, I felt so ridiculous with that label because it was a joke. The guy, instead of getting the same stand as me, encourage the teasing and acted toward me like we had a relationship. It was very awkward as well as frustrating since I wan;t that type of girl. I retaliated by taunting and making jokes about him. He didn't do anything and I stopped after our classmates are already not interested in us. I guess that each one of us have that evil streak. I guess there is a need to level things up between two people, especially with a 'past.'
• Calgary, Alberta
19 Mar 12
for an enemy that case is kinda light. But yeah I guess its because its someone you consider as your first enemy and a mortal enemy. a lot of people are now good friends with their first enemies.
• India
19 Mar 12
hello. when i tell this you will not believe me. i really have no enimies.. i like every one in my class. all are very kind to me and always help me.. i too help them.. all of my friend told me that you are my best friend!! really you guys will not believe me. anyway this is true.
• Calgary, Alberta
19 Mar 12
wow if thats true, How I wish my childhood is like yours, I want to feel how was it like to have no enemies,.
19 Mar 12
gosh...my very very first and unforgettable enemy is my crush who didn't even want my presence back in 6th grade..and he always caught me looking at him...so he walked to me and frankly tell me in public..."ohh?the day dreamer who's alwayas dreaming of me...."and all the persons who were there that time starts bullying me about him..and we grew up enemy...until now..and i hate him for that..!!grrr?!!
• Calgary, Alberta
19 Mar 12
do you still have crush on him? or was it converted into hate?