im going to miss my sister.
By elementah
@elementah (106)
United States
March 19, 2012 8:02pm CST
She's going to college next year and I know I'll extremely miss her even though our relationship is the 'omg your so annoying' blah blah blah kind of relationship, I'll miss how she'll help me with my homework, the times we talk, and just these little things that I'm not going to say, lol. Another thing is that all the responsiblity is going to go on my shoulders. Like how my sister helps our mom with the mail (since my moms a fob/chinese who doesn't know English) and I don't want to do that because I'm afraid that I'll tell her the wrong things and mess stuff up, you know. Like one time my mom asked me if this piece of mail was supposed to be a payment that was needed or an offer to register for a bank account. I wasn't sure and I said idk because if I said it was a payment and it wasn't, then it would waste her money. SO IM REALLY NERVOUS ABOUT RESPONSIBILITIES. AND EVEN THOUGH MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTER ISN'T GOOD, I KNOW THAT'LL ILL MISS HER PRESENCE. I just need some reassuring and advice right now.
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5 responses
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
Yes, of course you'll miss her even though you bicker almost everyday, yu did grow up together and you have that bond. 
don't worry, I am sue in a few months you'll be used to the responsibility- don't be scared of it since it will prepare you for the days ahead and make you more independent. learn from your mistakes.
don't worry, I am sue in a few months you'll be used to the responsibility- don't be scared of it since it will prepare you for the days ahead and make you more independent. learn from your mistakes.
@jobfindonline (1744)
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20 Mar 12
Sooner you will be taking more responsibilities like your sister. As she will now go to college expect for sure that some tasks at home will be unloaded to you. Take that time to learn how to be a responsible sister and daughter. Learn more responsiblities, allow yourself to commit mistakes coz no one is perfect. Do not be afraid of taking new responsibilities in life, later on you will realize that you just did the right thing.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
20 Mar 12
It happens often..our beloved ones goes far from us..don't worry your sister is going to continue her education..so you should not be sad..Pray for her to get concentration on studies...she will come back to you after her studies..so be happy and encourage her... :)
@SarahAlyx (181)
• United States
20 Mar 12
Everything happens for a reason. The more you worry about things the more you will stress and stress the people out around you. Don't be afraid to step up to the plate, there will always be a time in your life when you will have to face up to something bigger and take on things you would have never thought you could take on. Something like this isn't that big but it feels like it is when the pressure is on. The mail problem you can fix by going through and actually reading the mail or maybe even reading with you mom. Helping her learn better english will help you both in the long run. About your sister. Her being gone will help you miss her more and it will mean more to you when she comes back. It may just help the bond between you both grow stronger than before, not only that but maybe she will respect you more for taking on the duties that had been handed to her. Just know that you can handle whatever comes your way and remember to BREATH! Hope this helps!
@bonding2 (219)
• South Africa
20 Mar 12
Most times we only know how much we love our relations when they are no longer around,you will get used to it after sometime .Concerning responsibility, with time you will also get better ,stop running away from responsibility because it is the only thing that will make you grow . From now on you will realize that your relationship with your sister is going to get stronger whenever she comes back for the holiday
