Popular crowd in higschool, In or Out?

@deodavid (4150)
Philippines
March 27, 2012 6:14am CST
Hello there lotters, hows it going, Hey guys am kinda reminiscent today so I beg your pardon for my over indulgence in the past. Back in the day were we were still running around, young and all that and just in our prime smack right in the middle of post mid teen and almost grown up stage were you in the popular batch in your school did you have like cool set of friends that people look up to are the one that guys or gals envy? Me i had lots of friends back then up there mid and the not so pop or cool guys, i like to mix it up see what people say about others keep it to myself and just be someone in the middle people know me and some do like me but maybe not popular or cool like the others. But those days are gone now, but i would just like to know how about you guys and gals in your glory days were you in the popular crowd?
2 responses
@Markudo (55)
• Brazil
27 Mar 12
Well, I guess my position was very similar to yours, just a middle one between the popular guys and the "not so cool". But I was someone easy to talk to and very friendly and social, so not hard to get to me.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
hery there man, It is nice to be in the middle right you get to hear both sides, get more ideas and info regarding people and how they look at thin gs in life , but there are really times you get stuck in the middle and have to explain your position to opposing sides why do you decide on what but luckily enough they listen and sometimes see it my way. cool right.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
29 Mar 12
Out by my own choice to really be honest with you to say the very least. Of course there was a time during my high school days where I was going to be more inclined to fit in. But really to think about it, any attempts to really fit in were a waste of time. It was obvious people are really not going to like me for me. Just really, they are just going to like me for someone that I really am not going to be. Really I think that I had people who were in that were cordial enough to me. And there were some who treated me as I was part of the wall. Unless they needed some help with something, then I suddenly was a rather important person. That is rather funny. Popularity is really just something that is fleeting to say the very least. It is just not worth it to be one with the in crowd. It is not worth it and I regret the lost time I had trying to fit in.