Love / Convincing your self that ya he/she is the one...In arrange Marriage.
By deeksha_dams
@deeksha_dams (34)
India
April 6, 2012 11:45pm CST
Arrange marriages are prominent form of marriages in our country like India.We all initially before exploring the rough side of environment during our early years of maturity feel that we are only made for Love marriages.With the sands of time gradually we explore that where is Love !!! Love stands true only in 20-30% cases..So come on share your experience on this..!!!
1 response
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
7 Apr 12
I think arranged marriages are all about pleasing the people who are in a position to make the decision like parents, etc.
When 2 people are forced to be together maybe the best they can do is tolerate each other. I don't believe we can force a square peg to fit into a round hole.
If a couple is in an arranged marriage and they truly feel love for each other they are very, very lucky.
@deeksha_dams (34)
• India
7 Apr 12
Well said Sherry...U Know what I Live in a modern,civilized society...what i see these days are boys n girls starting their relationship with a thought that who cares..lets see..and after dating each other for 6 months they fall apart...but their this attitudes remains same..till the time they reach their perfect age for marriage,they are in phase that they have fallen in relationship 5-6 times..lost their innocence..wrapped up in a new Avtaar of practicality ...and then they make a wise decision of going for arrange because they want a girl/boy who is chosen by their parents...what kind of love n attitude is being reflected by all this...sad to see !!!
