Someone that I used to know

@deodavid (4150)
Philippines
April 7, 2012 4:46am CST
Met this old friend and that friend i haven't seen in a while, so we made sure to talk and we just reminisced she even shared a few corny jokes and we laughed about it in the end and just really had a good time sharing past and present things that each of us had been through but i guess things do really change and even though she was the same person it is just different somehow, i guess that will be the last time that we see each other i guess, and she''l just be someone that i used to know.
5 responses
• India
8 Apr 12
Time changes everybody, and no relationship can remain the same, try as you might. I talk to my old friends from time to time, reminiscing, and discussing everuthing like we used to. But it's difficult to find the same level of comfort, however familiar it feels with that person. I never want to label them just as "someone I used to know", but it's not something I can change. They've influenced me in more ways than I can count, yet I can't stop things from moving on, the wheels are always in motion. So we can just make the best of what we have, hope it lasts, and even if it doesn't, not demean it by begrudging those friends.
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@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
well i am not angry or in any conflict in my mind with this person it is just maybe our friendship has ended when the last school bell rang and that there is no way for it to comeback, anyway i wish her well always but i think this is the last time o would ever wanna meet her again.
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
Old friends are like golds. I have 4 friends way back in highschool. We were so closed. We treated each other like sisters and I still have them now. We don't see very often but they're always a part of who I am. I can always relate to that reminiscence. That part is always present in our conversations whenever we see each other. And it's such a relief to see an old friend calling your name and you shake and hug and kiss cheeks to cheeks together. It's like you're back in highschool. The things that changed is your experiences and influences. Only your hearts make you understand with each other and the memories you had;)
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@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Yeah i guess so all of that is correct , we were close to but i don't know what to say except that maybe it is time to just think as the past between me and that girl be just memories, i don't know why i feel so strongly about keeping my distance from her this is odd.
@GemmaR (8517)
7 Apr 12
I have a story a little bit like this because I chatted to somebody on the phone a week or so ago who I hadn't talked to since I was 11. I can't even remember how it came that I should ring her, but I just thought that I could do with talking to somebody who I was close to in my childhood. It was odd because the conversation was just as easy and free flowing as it always had been when we were playing together as children, and I am looking forward to restarting out friendship to be just like it had been in the past.
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@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Good for you a rekindled friendship well i think that is nice and healthy and would bring more interest into your life, childhood friends should never be forgotten and i think they also think that way, good that you have that old friend back.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
8 Apr 12
So, that is sad. You should ask her contact number, or facebook name. It is much better if your guys keep in touch. I would do my best to keep in touch with a good friend, since it will be hard to get to know a person so well. I won't miss it, and I would definitely keep on this friendship though. I hope that someday you will bump into this friend again.
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@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
I know where she lives her complete name and no i don't know her current number but i don't think i wanna search out for her as Ive mentioned there is this void blocking us from each other not wanting to be friends anymore , i don't know what it is.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
7 Apr 12
i had a best friend in high school who i haven't seen in a while. then when we saw each other we still had fun talking to each other. the way she treats me is still the same but besides that, there are a lot of things that have changed, like how she is with things and people around her. people really change. we may not feel it sometimes but we will also realize that we, ourselves, have also changed a lot.
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@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Me i think i am just starting to change, or as you've said i have changed yet do not know it since it is ourselves we are talking about well if change is inevitable then i wish for us to change for the better.