April 8, 2012 1:06pm CST
I think this is the time when we start to understand everything, know everything. Like 'why did my father abandon us?' It was just an end to a relationship without knowing why. We'd know all the answers that we didn't know back then. Maybe if we remember this, we'd stop being frustrated and angry and feeling helpless. Knowing that even if we don't know the answers today, we'd know someday and understand.