A mother who doesn't have a mothers heart

Philippines
April 23, 2012 12:58am CST
There was once a mother who had three children. Everything was okay then. His husband bought them a new small house in a small village. They had the things needed for the convenience of their living and enough income to support them financially. But you know sometimes there are things that we don't want to happen but we are force to do so. The mother went abroad and promised her children that she'll come back when she would have enough earnings. Many years after, she did not come back at all. Well, she cam back, but, she's not her anymore. She seems so rich and arrogant. The way she talk, dress,and treats her children was so different. Then she said something to her children like, "Don't call me your mom anymore.", and "I can't stay with you again, I have so much work to do." What comes into this mothers heart, only God knows. Whatever her reason is, only God understands. Its just that we are only humans. I am only human. And you know what's the worst part is? I am suppose to be calling her my mom, cause she is my mom. She was...
8 responses
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
i admire you because i know you still love your mother. you are right, only God knows what had happened to her to change heart but i am pretty sure no mother can ever turn her back on her children. well if your mother did then she might have the strong reason to do that. did you try to talk to her about that? i know she has her reason and i do hope you can be together again.
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
I tried to talk to her about it but every time I start the conversation, she would change to other topic. It really hurts me a lot...
@Chikezie (385)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 12
Such a mother might have her reasons why she is behaving that way. However, no reason is good enough for woman to abandon are kids for search of things. Any mother that does not is very inhuman. It is a very hard feeling and can leave an eternal pain and hurt in the lives of those children. In fact, as writing my comments, am imagining such a scenario and how one can able to deal with it. I think only Prayer can be able to change her heart.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
30 May 12
That is unbelievable.. I wonder how she became like that.. what made her change.. Maybe your mother is still there inside. deep down. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel. you only have one mother.
• United States
23 Apr 12
I don't know what to say about that. well i have some words but won't put them. I am a mom of two and would never walk away from my kids, they are my world. I think if a person is doing some thing like this you have to choose what is bet for you now and follow you heart with the the knowledge of your mind to make sure you don't get hurt more then needed. good luck and i hope thing's work out for the best for you.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
31 May 12
We cannot judge her for doing that, we don't know her reasons and we don't know what's in her heart and mind.. I know it is a sad in your part for she is your mother and you missed her presence as your mother... Just continue to love her and show it to her still your respect and love that is rightful to a mother, we nevr know when or why or how someday she will come back to be your mom...
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
I hope she is going to change but you are lucky you still have a father so love him with all your heart because he took good care of you while your mom was not around.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Hi jewelsam. Sorry to hear about your mom abandoned you. I am sure someday she will wake up and will regret everything she did to you and to your siblings. Just forgive her of what she did coz I know that someday she will still come back to you and will ask forgiveness..
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
This is not an easy situation to be in, I'm sure. Every daughter or son, longs to have a mother they can run to when they have problems they can't solve on their own. It's not easy to find strength to face the world, when you don't have a mother to support you. I'm sure it was harder for your mother to do these awful things to her children. She may be showing you a tough persona, but deep inside, she is hurting a lot. Why she's doing that, we don't know, but she must have a big reason for turning her back on you. For now, my friend, keep on praying for guidance and healing.