It is me, Ryanong!!!

It sounds like theres something bothering him thats he afraid to tell you, I would tell him that you have to talk or things wont work in the future. Because, its true you cant have secrets becuase, it will never work in the long run sorry to say. I would just sit down and have a talk with him.

When men have feelings, he will remain silent,and keep silent...I had a friend,encountered the same situation with you.A couple together for a long time,found that advantages and disadvantages of the lovers.your boyfriend is really loving you,perhaps he hope that he lover can be change to his ideal lover,and you two can be also hope that with you more long time.the best way for a couple is communication to each other,maybe he heard something from his friend talking about you,or maybe in the circle of your boyfriend friend group,he saw a couple from his friend and tend to his girlfriend in comparison with others.

If he can not or doesn't want to tell you what to change, you will have no way to know the answer, you can either ignore him telling you to change whenever he bring it out, or you can tell him you already changed into a person that he want to see, then see what is his reaction to your statement. Your boy friend may not have a clue what is he talking about, he doesn't know what need to change inside/outside you in order to satisfy him, he sound like in a state of confusion, or may be lost his senses for a while due to some sudden incident befall upon him. Dn't be very confused now, he is the one at fault here, not you, chill and go on with your life, may be after a week, he will get his mind back again and stop acting like a fool.

maybe he needs that you can make yourself beautiful in front of him..so he can be proud of you maybe, in front of his friend..

Hey there ryanong... I guess you two need to talk and open up. In a relationship, couples are advised to not keep secrets from each other even though sometimes it might be painful. And sometimes too, your partner can't be that perfect person, and you would always have to accept that... Sometimes sacrifice is needed.. You can't dictate to someone what you want them to be.. You can advise but not force them how they should be, maybe you can tell him that, when he tells you what he want you to change... You know, changing your self, is definitely hard and would take time to adapt to the change.. So go have a talk to him. Good luck and have a nice day!

Ryanong! Wow! I think you don't need to baffler yourself. Man and women are different way to think life.We often thought person action as ourself mind.Actually, most time the things will not move as we hope. So maybe your boyfriend just have confuse at his work or interesting habbit.You can view his behavior kindly and completely. And you could ask his friend "what's going on about your honey?". You think like that, I thing you must love him deeply. Best Regard!