Is he just playing games on me?

Philippines
May 4, 2012 1:54pm CST
having a crush is part of our teenage life. here's my story... i have a huge crush on someone since we were in highschool. He is 2 years older than me and he is also a friend of my sister. When i turned into college i didn't expect that we were in the same school. he was a graduating student while i am turning 3rd year. i took advance class on Income Tax with my friends. i already knew that some of my classmates are graduating students but what i didn't know that HE is one of those grad. students. i was surprised when i looked at the back and find him, i was really happy. There's this day when he sat beside me and my friends started smiling and teasing me, i couldn't help but to move my chair away from him to make it not obvious but i think that time he already notice my friends and my feelings for him. after that moment, me and my friends already notice him kept on doing the same thing and i think that he's just teasing me coz everytime he sat there he'll looked at his friends and grinned. i admit it i seriously don't like it. there's also this time my friend saw him with his friends talking at the back pointing their fingers on our direction, after their conversation he sat again beside me and looked at the back. there's many unusual things he did but he even tried to talk to me. so i decided i'll act naturally from that moment on. i wanted him to be my friend so eagerly. :( do you think he's just playing with my feelings? i really don't know if he's playing or he also has some itsy bitsy feelings for me too.. hmmm..
3 responses
• Philippines
4 May 12
OMG!Your story takes me back to high school! I also had a huge crush on someone when I was in high school.Before my friends would also tease me whenever that guy was around but it was also weird that whenever I pass by him and his friends they would also tease him.You know guys are really unpredictable,we don't know what's on their minds.Maybe he also likes you.But don't give in your feelings that easily because one time when I knew he was in a relationship with my classmate(which was also his far neighbor-they were in same subdivision)it was really super painful,I feel like cutting myself,but life is too precious and he also joked about going to another country because she had a "girlfriend"(not true) there.I cried about for about a year I guess.Well moving on,I think you should know him better and try to figure out what are his true intentions are.Be just friends for a long time and Good luck :)
• Philippines
5 May 12
how did you know he was joking? Were you friends with him? Sadly we are not friends. :( i don't even know how to approach him after all those things happened. i can't even look at him.
• Philippines
5 May 12
Is it really important to admit your feelings to someone you like? I don't really see the importance. Hmm. I become a lunatic person whenever i'm with other people. :))
• Philippines
5 May 12
I found out because I asked his friend which was also his classmate,I really had to ask because I just had to,I always kept thinking about it if it was true or not,that was my 3th yr in high school and I already deleted his phone number because of what happened.at my 4th yr.I found out my friend is in tutor with him.And I thought that would be an opportunity to know him well.We did became friends in high school but not really close but I was glad I get to know him a little bit.Sadly when it was graduation I had to move on to college because I was a year older than him.When I was already in college I found out he moved to another school.Now were not friends anymore.I think I had to blame myself because I haven't told him what I really felt for him before and I had a boyfriend,I eventually fell for him because he had the qualities I liked and I love him as time passed.Just try to be cool.Try to act normal like how you act to other people.
@vaishnavc (556)
• India
4 May 12
We can't be 100% sure of that.But it would be better if you don't make it obvious for him that you have fallen head over heels for him.He knows that yo u like.So let it be.Don't let him think that you are crazy for him.When he comes to you,act natural.Then he will start wondering.And if he likes you as well,then you will know from how he responds then.
• Philippines
5 May 12
i am starting to act natural around him and even my friends stopped teasing me although some of them couldn't stop smiling. But i wanted to be friends with him so badly.
• India
5 May 12
don't let know that you like him this much.He knows you like him.But doesn't show that you are desperate.Let him come to you.If he likes you,He will come to you.Believe me.I am a guy.And if i liked someone,i wouldn't waste my time,i'd find some reason to be with them ,to talk to them and all.
• Philippines
5 May 12
Maybe he doesn't like me at all coz he's not even trying to get to know me. What you think?
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
5 May 12
That is why it is not good for the guy you have a crush on, know that you have a crush on him.. Worst case scenario, his friends also start teasing you.. I experienced that before but I just ignored all of the, i got turned off.
• Philippines
5 May 12
I also felt that "turned off" then got turned on again. Haha.