are failures the pillar of success?? do u think so.?"

India
May 7, 2012 12:14pm CST
Every where in this world we have got two imposters called "FAILURES" and "success" WE do something which involve both of them. I am very upset with the fact... for instances i have got the speech from many people that abraham lincoln, newton, etc suffered from various failures, and " now" see where are they ... this are all suited for speeches but due to the PRESENT SCENARIO, we dont actually see the place for failures they are just being pressurised by the world.. IT EVEN COSTS THEM THEIR LIFE... sad "truth" isint it...
8 responses
• United States
7 May 12
Without our failures, how will we ever be able to learn? If we are always told that we did everything right, we would have no sense of morals at all.
• India
7 May 12
but friend do you think that in this competitive scenario we get secon chances ?? think on it buddy ... its a harsh truth..
@rahul2u (200)
• India
8 May 12
then do you think every one got selected in their first interview it self ? before they got selected they will face so many interviews and they learn lessons from it, and one day they will successfully got placed. do u learn riding bicycle without falling once also ? that's life.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 May 12
When we say pillar, it means a strong foundation, so basically we can say that failure per se can not be a good pillar, it is how we perceived about things. Failure maybe regard as an eye opener for some and sometimes can not be avoided. However failing is not the end, in fact, it can be a good start.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
8 May 12
Failures are rather something that can be hard to swallow by some people right out there. However, a failure is not truly lost unless people fail to learn from their past mistakes. If they live to tell the story, then they can live to learn from the mistakes. It is just really simple right out there, there is a lack of learning which makes failure the big problem. And what a problem it can be for some people. People tend to get frustrated, they fear failure, they fear that the worst might in fact happen right out there. Yet in the end, when people refuse to learn, they are in a lot of trouble. However those who fear failure, will never accomplish complete success, because they will stick for safe options, which in its way is a failure.
@cloud31 (5809)
8 May 12
It depends on how you deal with failures.If you failed and get stuck then failure get nothing to do with success. Its true that failures are the pillar of success. The truth is you will be mold in dealing with failures you able to get through over it. So when the opportunity comes you will be more likely to deal with it properly and never let failure brings you down. Have a nice day!
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
8 May 12
I agree with this- they can be pillars to success. Since no man has succeeded without having a bump here and there- it is these failures that make him a better person and makes him strive more t get his success.
• China
8 May 12
hey, dude, there is no need to feel upset with it. it's just the way we are growing up
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
7 May 12
Every man has teir own failures before succeeds in life. Just like mine, I took the board exam twice and failed, the third time, I already passed. One thing I learned from this is that you must concentrate on your reviews for the board exam. I stopped working and take the risk of not having any income. But the fruit of this risk is worthy. I failed in able to learn before succeeding. There is a saying that, "Failure of a person does not means that you are failure. It only means that you haven't succeeded yet." which is really true.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
7 May 12
I think failures can be pillars to success...it just depends on the person how he or she takes it. Some people treat failures as the end of the world, but thee are some like Abraham Lincoln and Newton that treat it as a challenge to do better.