taking care of you

Philippines
May 13, 2012 11:49am CST
i have many friends always saying there problem with their love life...i always give them some advice, but they don't listen to what i say.. it's annoying sometimes because they keep on asking for advice it's like I'm just wasting my breath. If you really love each other, then you have to take the good with the bad. You just don't go rushing into things without thinking about it. That's what causes the problem in the first place.
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• United States
13 May 12
Sometimes the bad is just too hard to live with. I know for me no matter how much I love a man I will not take the cheating for any reason. that bad can fly out the window. I love myself far more than any man to take that crap. so not all bad is worth going through.
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• United States
29 May 12
Yeah I agree with you. Cheating is not a good thing. And like you said you love yourself too much for that. And why shouldn't we. Have self respect for ourselves. Now with every decision we make there will be consequences whether good or bad so we have to decide what is best for us as individuals.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
13 May 12
I agree with you on not rushing into things without thinking about it. I believe that there are people who just choose not to follow good advises even when they asked for it because they are at the time of the situation more emotional, so their decision-making skills are more biased upon their feelings than logic. I cannot blame them though. It really happens not only in relationships but in many other situations in life. I guess sometimes we just have to experience pain and hopefully learn from it.
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• United States
29 May 12
Yeah I agree with you. Some people like to talk with others about there problems but when it comes to applying it to themselves that is a completely different story. There is a lot involved in making a success of a relationship. The individuals have to be willing to apply suggestions.
@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
29 May 12
Yeah I agree with you. There is a lot involved in having a successful relationship. And every relationship with face problems and challenges from time to time. The important thing is making it through those difficult times. When we give advice to others it can be frustrating when they don't listen. We I guess just have to keep giving them the same advice and perhaps someday they will listen.