job and marriage
May 14, 2012 7:13pm CST
job and marriage, which is more important to you? given you haven't save enough money to support your rest life if no job.
15 May 12
job is more important to me.. i don't really want to be a burden if ever i want to get married.. i want to be able to say that i don't just rely on to someone and that i can live independently without someone who'll help me with financial needs.. :)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 May 12
In my personal views; it should be job. Marriage is just around the corner. I have experienced it personally. I thought I have the man of my dreams and we're engaged during that time when all of these problems surfaces without any warning at all; turns out to be that he can't handle it as much as I can and it grew separating us. For jobs; yeah- I got married to it LOL; I even have 3 of them at the same time and it gained me profit eventually; and now I'm about to meet my goals. Save yourself first before saving marriage; that's what I personally learned about what happened to our relationship. Yes it did hurt me a lot but it will hurt me more if I still continue saving what's not worth saving for. Besides, without resources; there's a thin chance that both of you will survive aside from love; it will burn you out and yearn for something more fruitful. "Save Me From Myself..."- I remembered that song eventually. It was from Vertical Horizon (I'm so not an obvious fan.. not too obvious; hahaha..) and when you hear that song, you will soon have that clear picture of prioritizing something that would not give you any more benefit that self-love