Miss You Mom...

@ksmita (515)
India
May 16, 2012 4:37am CST
Hi all. Few days back my mom passed away. When she was alive, I never felt the need of a friend. For so many years, we were together like best friends. Due to her ill health, she was not able to move around much, so I decided to be with her all the time. I became like her, living her life, spending time with her, and now when she is gone, i feel i am so lonely. No one to share my pain, no one to talk. Earier I pushed people away from me and now others are doing the same with me. I do not want to get depressed, but it makes me miss my mom more than ever. Now, i realize the importance of friends in one's life. I just hope, i soon get a life.
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@shylade (3137)
• Philippines
17 May 12
I understand how you feel. It is really hard to lose someone so dear to you, especially a mom who has been with you all your life. It is like you lose your one leg. Your life will never be the same with her I know. The sadness will pass in time but the memories of your mom will remain forever in your heart. I am lucky I still have my mom but I had lost my day years ago. The pain is indescribable but I losing mom is really different. I hope you can find another friend who will be there for you. But still no one can ever replace your mom.
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• United States
17 May 12
I am sorry for your loss. I love my mother very much as well. I often share phone calls with her all day. I moved away from her so I don't see her that much. But,I hope and pray you will use mylot to release anything you are feeling. There are some here who share your loss. I can't say I understand because I don't. I just share your love as I know all too well how that is. I wish you luck in making some good friendships ....
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@KingEric (80)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I'm sorry for your loss. I would say that it's okay to be alone sometimes. Your loss somehow wanted you to be alone for a while and to feel that you can handle it on your own. Your family and friends will always be there for you. They'll understand it if you want time on your own. They will respect that. About your loss, yes... that's a terrible feeling. That feeling that you'll only realize the value of someone when that person is no longer with you. With this, we should cherish people who are with us now. We should tell them how we love and care for them while they're still here. I hope you'll feel okay soon. This will take time to heal. Don't rush it... especially if it's a dearest love one.
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@cloud31 (5811)
16 May 12
I'm sorry for your loss. We can really feel the sadness of being left by someone we love the most.I hope you can get through to your sadness.Wherever your mom right now she is resting in peace and she doesn't like you to be lonely like now. It happened to me when my beloved dad had passed away and until now I'm longing for him but I know hes happy wherever he is now and I know someday I still have chance to be with him once again, in other life.
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@GADHISUNU (2164)
• India
16 May 12
Ima so sorry to learn that you lost your mom.This is the problem when one gets too dependent on just one individual. The loss of a mother is irreplaceable, even if the relationship with one's mother were less intense than yours. You must summon your courage and try to think of a next someone.That person may not measure up to your mom.But just the next best anyway...well, you have to make a beginning, somewhere...
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