I just want to make friends and be a good friend to her.

Philippines
May 22, 2012 1:53am CST
Hello Fellow Mylotters, I really love to make friends. Wherein, I find it easy to have one before. But now, it seems like the process of having friends are quite going difficult. As I have encountered one who did asked me, why I would like to befriend her. That, she is waiting for some reason why I am making friends with her. That she did not accepted me as her friend until I have stated my reason. So I just told her, I find her nice and fun to be with. That whenever I look at her, it seems like she takes life so easy. After that, she somehow accepted me. However, whenever we talked, its like she wants me to go away. That, she always told me, I can still find friends better than her. That, she does not want more friends. And I really feel sad whenever she told me this. And I really cannot explain why she is like that. Why is she showing me that kind of attitude. I just want to make friends and be as a good friend to her.
5 responses
Secret
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
23 May 12
Hmmm... maybe she find something negative to you and she would not tell you directly or maybe she feels insecure or what. It is hard for her to comprehend if both of you don't open up to each other, but if she really does not want you at all, I think it is time to set her free.
airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
23 May 12
Hello there IntrovertShy, I have already talked to that friend and glad to say that we are fine now. Although we seldom talked to each other but it is alright then. I am happy and contented for the status of our friendship. Although I am looking forward that this friendship will go far beyond forever. A lasting friendship that is worth to keep. Cheers.
airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Hi there, I have just read your response on this. By the way, you can ask me that question that bothers in your mind. You can send me the question via pm if you want to.
Secret
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
13 Jun 12
Thank you. I like to ask you a question, but I decided not to ask it. He he Anyway, I am glad that I am your friend now even though I feel a little bit guilty for being a busy person.
kshongmo
@kshongmo (82)
• China
22 May 12
From what you said, in my opinion, I think she maybe misunderstood you. Maybe she thought your "befriend" has further meaning, say "be lover". But I think one person should not treat others like that even who wants to pursue her.
airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
22 May 12
With regard to your opinion, perhaps she have thinked of another meaning. Although deep in my heart, all I want is a good friendship. Maybe she is the one who has another intention on it. And that was the result.
laken02
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
23 May 12
if i were you, i would not waste my time tryibg to be friends with someone like her to me she sounds like she would not be a good friend at all.. i mean who tells you they dont want anymore friends thats crazy and just plain stupid... sounds too like she dont care who she hurts in the process as long as she is ok.. you need to find some good friends or one good freind that will be good for you and want to be around you as well.. keep looking and you will find a much better freind in my opinion and be better off and much happier :) lots of luck
Polang
@tkonlinevn (6373)
• Vietnam
22 May 12
I don't know why she has done that. Maybe because you make she thinks that you like flirting her ? :) I think that you should talk to her clearly your thoughts about her and why you like to make friend with her. This is good for both. Good luck to you!
bjc66bjc
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
23 May 12
airasheila, call me slow, but I don't understand why you are persistent being friends with someone who shows no interest in being your friend...are you looking for a friend or something further and the person can detect that at are not interested... I am confused....maybe you need to seek others for friendship...