Making friends during students life!

India
June 2, 2012 1:42am CST
Most of people have close friends made during their student life. What should be kept in mind while making/selecting friends?
5 responses
@obey39 (125)
• China
2 Jun 12
Hey, my friend.I am glad to make friends in school, university, company,any place, if conveniently.But for the close friends,it is hard to make.With the growing competition in the society,most people knows the fact that they only make instant friends with others for the purpose of finishing their own task.And then the value of friend is near to zero.So it is difficult to make close friends now.But for me, an honest and upright person will also be my friend.so this is why I glad to make friends all over the world.
@obey39 (125)
• China
2 Jun 12
Also I find it difficulty in defining the criteria of selecting the friend or making a close friend.it is sometimes up to you only.and different people own different attitude towards what kind of friend they will make for which purpose.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
For me, being honest and true to themselves is making or selecting friends.
• India
2 Jun 12
Yes, to be honest and true is must for friendship. Thank you
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
We make friends because we need somebody to ease our pains, to be our confidant, somebody that we could lean on and somebody that inspires us and make us happy. But how are we going to be wise in selecting friends? Make it sure that no one from the both of you took the first move. As time goes by, you will find out that there is a strong relationship and confidence built between you and that person and it is time or destiny that will draw you closer. If you feel that a person is so close to you, do not entrust everything yet. Without his knowledge, observe him to find out his attitudes, characteristics, values and how he handle other people. Open up a discussion and know what are her strengths and weaknesses. Lastly, create a scene whereas you could test how faithful he would be as your friend.
@Mashnn (4501)
2 Jun 12
Make sure that you choose friends that enjoy doing similar things like you do or else you will not be able to enjoy the friendship fully. The friends that you choose should also be people interested in studying and not involved in criminal activities.
@Austina (92)
• Philippines
3 Jun 12
It is a normal thing that you make friends during your student life. We cannot take it away. Just keep in mind that a student is still a student. Meaning, as a student, you should follow rules and be responsible about it. If something is wrong, learn to say no and avoid such things.