What's your understanding of the word "friend"?

June 2, 2012 2:56am CST
Friends are important to everyone,no one can live happily in the world without any friend around,a friend is someone who can help us we are in trouble,a real friend is the one who is willing to share our sorrows and joys,who understands us,who quietly accompanies us when someting unfortunate happens to us,who points out our weaknesses and defect in face. i have such a good and close friend, her name is lan,we spent an unforgettable school life,we help each other often at any time,when i feel sad ,she will comfort me,when i do something wrong,she will point out my mistake in face,she helps me a lot,i thank her very much,now we still keep a good relationship,i know our friendship will be forever,that's the saying"a friend in need is a friend indeed",do you agree it ?my lotters.i hope we can become good friends,i am looking forward to your reply.
9 responses
@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
A friend to me is someone who is like a sister/brother. A friend loves like a lover, cares like a mother, protects like a father. A friend to me is more than a lover because when a lover breaks your heart, friend is there for you all the time. =) A friend is someone who understands your differences and flaws yet is still there for you. Someone who accepts your good and bad side. A friend tells you your mistakes on your face but never judges you, a friend helps you overcome your mistakes instead of putting you down and judges you for it. Sometimes you will encounter misunderstandings but when it's patched up, you can go on laughing about it after. =) You have a very good friend yimsiupang. You and her are lucky to have each other. I agree with your statement. I also have some friends who are like that. I used to have a group of friends whom I cared a lot. But it's sad to have known they would believe gossips than getting the real story. I only have few friends now but they're way better than my old group of friends. =)
• Philippines
4 Jun 12
Yes, because a friend just loves a friend without asking for anything in return. =) I do have some good friends right now. We are different but our differences don't matter. I have different friends too, and I am still in touch with my childhood friends. The friends I have right now is not a big group but we get along well. =) We also have misunderstandings but I think that happens in friendship, wherein your friendship is being polished to be stronger and better. =)
5 Jun 12
Well chan,i am so glad to hear that you have some good friends,i also want to be your friend if you like,we can share evrything at mylot,maybe we can become good friend in our real life,i hope that will happen one day.
3 Jun 12
Hello chan2zexy,thanks for your responses,i quite agree with the word you said"A friend loves like a lover,cares like a mother,protects like a father",i think you also have some very good frinds,i hope you will be good friends forever,i also hope that we can become good friends,best wishes for you.
@jziakhan (701)
• Pakistan
2 Jun 12
Friends are a very important component of our socail lives. They are equally as important as having a family. Friends I believe, are like our second family, when our biological family, which includes our siblings and parents fail us or do not understand us, we seek refuge in our friend's opinions. We take shelter in conversations with them because we need someone to talk to. We can be open and public about our feelings with them and converse with them in a way that we are unable to do so with our actual family and relatives, a way that can be described as 'comfortable' and 'un-restricted'. I also understand that friends are our confidants, they supress our secrets in life and are our shoulders to cry on. We can have fun being with them, and partaking in activities with them because they have been selected by us based on their characteristics such as: Being the same age (as people of the same age usually go through the same personal problems), having the same perspective on things, etc. A best-friend is really justyou in a different body! Yours truly, JZIAKHAN.
2 Jun 12
Hi jzjakhan,Thank you for your response,yes,friends are a very important component of our socail lives,i agree with you very much,thank you again.
@jziakhan (701)
• Pakistan
2 Jun 12
And thankYOU, for being so sweet! :D
5 Jun 12
you are so nice,sweet to you!
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
good day yimsiupang, i do agree in all the words that you have written in your post. hence, all of it are correct. and, by the way, i am really looking forward to have more friends, not only in virtual but in real world as well.
3 Jun 12
good day airasheila,thank you for your response,you can add me as a good friend if you like,i hope we can become good friends ,hehe ~thanks again.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
3 Jun 12
I agree with you, friends are important to us. Several people considered me as their friend but I have only a few, maybe less than 5 whom I considered a true friend to me. Some of my so-called friends are just there because they needed me. I am sorry to those who really considered me as their friend because I really don't know at the moment. I once had close friends but they did something which angered me though we still talk but they're just considered mere acquaintance to me. It's hard to find a really true friend. From what you stated, I guess you have a very good friendship with Ian and hope that your friendship will continue to grow. I hope we'll also be friends.
3 Jun 12
Hi pahak,you are right,it's hard to find a really true friend,but you are so luckly because you have 5 close friends,i also hope that your friendship will continue to grow,i believe we can become very good friends.
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
3 Jun 12
Hello ! Yes,the relation of friendship is different from all other relations,the friendship is a relation where one know all about other.And moreover i think all the relations have limitation and we have to treat accordingly and it may lead a gap between understanding. But in friendship we almost share everythings to each other and it make easy to sort out the good and bad between both of them. Where it sometimes be harmful to one from another as both known to each other and familar to their nature,so one may play vilainious plot to other for his/her personal gain..... So be very careful while you make friend someone....
4 Jun 12
Hello,PurnaSharma,thanks for your response,i can't zgree with you any more,you are right,we must treat friendship carefully,when we treat a friend carefully,we will reap a good friendship,good luck!
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
hi yim! a friend is someone who knows you and still accepts you for who you are. when you're with that person, you can be yourself. you can say or do anything without fear of being judged. a friend is almost like family. but unlike your family who "tolerates" everything that you do, a true friend is not ashamed to tell in your face if you're doing something wrong. this is because a friend helps you become a better person. you may not talk or see that person every day, but he or she continues to be your friend despite the distance or time apart from each other. so if you find that person or persons whom you consider as your friend, consider yourself lucky, and make sure to keep them. i'm happy for you yim, because you found a true friend.
3 Jun 12
Hi leahcruz,thank you for your response,you are right,a true friend is not ashamed to tell in your face if you are doing something wrong,she reall helps me become a better person,i am so lucky found a true friend,hope you find some good friends,good luck!
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
A friend is someone who's so willing to know how you are doing despite of their busy schedules. Someone who could understand you no matter what. Someone you could talk about all your dreams in life. I am so blessed to have a friend or bestfriend who's like that. She's indeed the best among all my friends. Even if we do not go to the same school. Even if we often communicate. I am still not worried because I know she's always there for me no matter what happens. Despite of our busy schedules, we still find time seeing and updating each other. She's the very reason why I am not sad at times when I am alone walking down the street.
3 Jun 12
Hi karstine29,thanks for your response,you are so luckly,because you have a close friend who can share your gladness and sadness,hope you will be good friends forever.
2 Jun 12
My understanding about friend is being with you in good times and bad times, will cheer you up and give some good advices, should treating you like a sister or a brother. True friend should tell you what is wrong or right, should not spoil you if you're not doing good.
3 Jun 12
Hi adorblelucia82,i agree with your understanding of friend very much,thank you for your response,have a good day!
@dede28 (52)
• Romania
2 Jun 12
"A friend is someone you can depend on. Someone who you can talk to. A friend could be anything like a person, dog or cat. Whatever a friend is it doesn't matter as long as it's your friend. Many people don't know that. A friend is a friend and that's all that matters.
3 Jun 12
Hi dede28,you speak very well,thanks for your response,have a good day!