Said I LOVE YOU when being DRUNK...

@ryanong (9695)
Vietnam
June 7, 2012 10:42pm CST
I have one younger friend, she is just 20 years old. She likes a guy who is same her age very much. And they always accompany together when going out...I met them sometime. However all actions just stop as friends only...She really doesn't know exactly that guy loves her or not... Yesterday, i and my friend had a dinner together with them and we drink a bit..But that guy drank too much, his face became red. I guess he was a bit drunk...He told blah blah ... Suddenly he turned his face to the girl, catching her hand and said: I love you, M, I love you so much, why don't you know that?...and then he bended down to the table. He was totally drunk... It sounds very funny but i was surprised to hear what he told also. I don't know... he might love that girl also OR...it is just his talk when he was drunk... This morning, he is shy when i asked about it, and he didn't remember about it..
11 responses
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
Hello dear! I guess if he really don't remember the thing he did, he didn't mean it after all he is drunk. and you know that since it's really obvious, right? So, tell your friend not to expect things when you don't know and you're not sure what he really feels about the girl. It's better to prepare yourself than expect too much when he didn't really have feelings...isn't it?
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
ya...he told when he is drunk...so that there are 2 cases: - he told his mind and he truly love that girl also, - he told lie about it... If i were in that girl's shoes, i just leave it there and act as if i didn't hear about it...honestly i still want to receive 3 words with passionate eyes when a men told me...
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Like you, I would definitely mind those sayings which comes from the heart with the combination of actions as well. Some say these words but then they didn't prove it. so, meaning the essence of the words was gone. Like the wind that passes and was never meant real. Everyone deserves to be loved. it's just that we have to find the right or deserving person for this...
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
Honestly...till now i really don't know how to find the right or deserving person. It is really difficult and sometime it depends on our luck also. Love or friendship need time to improve it...and i think that guy should do something to prove his love also if he truly falls in love with the girl. My bf, he told love me for more than 1 year..but if put all into analysis, he talks much, and do a bit to prove his love...
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
I think her bf really love her because some people are just shy to express when they are not drunk. :D
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
ya, i agree with you too. My first bf used to do like that but after that i did as nothing happens...after a while, he wrote it on a paper and then gave me...
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
Yeah.. hehhehhehe
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
ya, i think many guy did like that...in his first love...
@aribdee (133)
• United States
8 Jun 12
That means he loves the girl. Most drunk people can speak most out of his/her mind when they are drunk. I saw a quote before saying something like this: There are only 2 types of people who are telling the truth 1. Little children 2.Drunk people. Personally I believe on this phrase. When I am also drunk I want to express everything I want to tell and that is all true. He is shy because he lost his confidence when he is not drunk.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
I agree with you too. Little children and Drunk people often tell the truth...and i now i think he loves that girl too. hahaha, i want to be there when you are drunk...then i could hear all your honest talk...
@aribdee (133)
• United States
8 Jun 12
LOL. I'm still honest even if I'm not drunk. hehe :D
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
Really? you are such a nice guy...
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
I don't really know where to put it. I have seen people act weird when drunk. Most of them just stupid. I also know that sometimes the truth can be blurted out when drunk. So where do I really put this one, just a stupid reaction or the hidden truth? I guess we'll have to find out soon, because eventually, he will have to prove it right?
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
Ya, i think they need more time to improve it... Sometime we should not think too much a talk from a drunk guy...
@bunnybon7 (36428)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 12
poor guy. he probably does love her and like you say is just to shy about it not being sure does she feel the same. yes its hard to tell. some only tell the truth when they are drinking. having their nerve get up then.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
I agree with you too. It is hard to tell 3 words, especially with a shy guy. I do hope they can be in the love also..because they do accompany anytime when i see them.
@swapmind (357)
• Australia
8 Jun 12
:) It happens many a times that people speak openly after being drunk as heart dominates the mind and curbs all thinking power.One muster all strength and overcomes all hesitations.But it really turned romantic in this case,I hope it will go a long way.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
ya, i do hope they both are being in love too... I was so surprised when hearing what he said...In fact, not only me, all people in there...it is very nice and fun...
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
Sometimes there are only 3 people that talks about the truth, first, kids; second, drunk person; third, an angry person. I believe that guy is telling the truth deep inside his heart and he's only shy confessing it when he's not drunk. He should be thankful that he had a chance to say what he really want to say but too bad he's not on his self since he's drunk.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
an angry person will say the truth? really? i haven't heard about this. Ya, you are right, this guy might tell the truth deep inside his heart, he is a shy guy...
• United States
8 Jun 12
Liquid courage that all it was. I remember whe in the beginning of a relationship you want to blurt it out but refrain with lack of courage. But be careful to the seriousness because if it is too soon it may mean I Lust you and NOT I Love You and they may be trying to get into your pants! Good luck with that one :)
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
Ya, many guys just pretend to be drunk and then tell lie...So that with a talk when a drunk guy talk..we should be vigilant with it also...Am i suspicious???
@Austina (92)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
That's so funny! Did the guy really loves your friend? Saying I love You when drunk should't be taken seriously. I am not drinking and I do not know the feeling of one. But as I observe drunk people, I notice that they do not know what they are doing. What they have said may be a lie.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
ya, someone often pretend to be drunk to tell lie, but someone talk what is their mind when they are drunk while they could not do it in normal. That guy is quite shy when talking about love...so that i think he maybe honest to say it.
• India
8 Jun 12
Wow, it's totally romantic, when the boy asks the girl "I love you and why don't you know that? " But why would he lie when he was drunk?? I just hope he really loves her, cute no?
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
ya, i was surprised about his action also... I think he didn't lie about it, just normally he is shy then he could not speak it out with that girl...
@toniganzon (49796)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
There are people who can only speak their mind out when they're drunk and that's the real emotion they have. There are those who use drunkenness as an excuse to lie. But i think that guy was really sincere because of the way he reacted the next day not knowing what he did and feeling embarrassed about it. Maybe he really does feel something for her.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
I used to be drunk one time...and what i did is just sleeping only I agree with you too. Some guys can speak their mind out when they are drunk only/...normally they are too shy and can't say 3 words. I love you also. But some guys just tell lie whenever they are drunk... I think that guy is honest when talk it...normally he is shy when talking about love...