Now I can see why her husband went with her friend

A few months ago I started a discussion about a friends husband going off with her best friend.Well to be honest after seeing that the wife, never wants to stay at home to spend time with him, like married people do, or to be there being a family with the children and her husband, or even to cook or clean for him, plus always have people in and out the house, can you blame him looking else where, when the poor man has been trying to tell her for a few years to buck her ideas up.When the husband was confronted by his wife about what had happened, he did not deny it had taken place with her friend, but said it was her friend that wanted him to leave his wife, he told her that things would have to change and she agreed that she would start to do the house work and not spend all hours away from the house or the children and would be there all the time for him, also not keep having people in sitting down with their children, or people out staying their welcome.Well she will never change and I am sure that he will not either.He was going to move in with the wives friend, when he went with her the last time.Now he allowed to smoke drugs at a relations house while the children are there as well, all because he had an affair.The husband has been bad mouthing his wife at work, as well to the wives brother, also laughing behind the wives back, saying if he done it again, his wife would not kick him out.