i will ask her
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
June 11, 2012 6:44am CST
As I have mentioned in one of my discussions last week, there was a former high school classmate of mine ( in an exclusive for girls school) whom I have seen in the other counter of the supermarket and have ignored me .
I didn’t greet her, maybe because I thought she’s already rich so she’s a snob already. 
However, the other night I saw her request me to add her as friend, when my name was posted in our high school batch FB page. I added her of course. 
Now, it’s my chance to ask her, why she snobbed me on the above incident.
However, the other night I saw her request me to add her as friend, when my name was posted in our high school batch FB page. I added her of course.
Now, it’s my chance to ask her, why she snobbed me on the above incident. 1 person likes this
6 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
You can ask here in a nice way, just to find out if she's the one who saw you in the supermarket . I think she's didn't intended to snob you because she intended it she will never sent you a request to be your friend in your FB.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Yes, i agree with you my friend.
I think after i have accepted her as my friend in FB, she browsed at my albums and realized, i am what she saw in the supermarket. 
I think after i have accepted her as my friend in FB, she browsed at my albums and realized, i am what she saw in the supermarket. 
@Chijara (57)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Maybe she didn't snob you at all, maybe she's a nearsighted that's why she can't see you and remembers you. ^^ It's a humor joke of my brother when some of his friends telling him he's a snobber and then he would tell them, "Sorry guys, I'm a nearsighted I can't see you when you're too far hahaha". That why I get those nearsighted idea.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Oh well maybe , chijara. I saw her staring at me, and turned away when she saw me look back at her.
Somehow, she may be thinking, she looks familiar.
To be honest, i am a far cry from my high school looks. I have grown some poundage in the proper places. Though, i have some fats also in my tummy area already. 
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
She saw me because i saw her looking at me. But she didn't smile , so i didn't either.
Well, my classmate told me that she might have not recognized me. She herself didn't recognize me also, had i not spoken to the cashier, making her look at me as my voice seemed familiar to her.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
Oh uh...
Well yeah, we think that way when an old friend/classmate snob us -hehehe.
My eyesight is kind of poor and that gives me trouble recognizing people in a far distant- 5 meters or less , a person's face is a bit blur for me already.
And some friends always tells me I'm a snob uh uh please :x
Good thing you have asked her, or else you will keep thinking about it
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Actually jaiho, i haven't asked her yet.
I plan to , if ever i will attend and she too , a batchmate gathering which can happen at anytime someone blows out for her birthday.
I know now . that she didn't really recognize me, because i was so different then, skinny , lanky with curly hair.
But now. . .
@else22 (4317)
• India
11 Jun 12
I don't think you should ask her that,because it is she who had requested you to add her as your friend and you have already obliged her.Now that you are friends,I don't think it would be right for you to ask her the question.May be she is a snob,but it is she who had taken the initiative to request you to add her in your friends' list.So my suggestion is,forget how she behaved and see how she is going to behave as your friend in Mylot.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
Actually, i have told my old classmate about it, and she told me that she might not have recognized me. During our high school days, i was so skinny and tall, thus today that i have gained some wanted pounds in the right places, my classmate said, she could have not recognized me. She herself didn't recognize me too, when we met after 35 years.
Well, if ever, i weigh the situation.
Well, if ever, i weigh the situation.
@ONLYHOPE (189)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
hai
yes my friend you should ask her than to hide what is in your mind, and much better if you ask this way, "hi can you remember me?" to know if she still recognized you and if she said "no' that will be the time to introduce your self and the past years moments. but if she said "yes", then ask her again if she recognized you at that time when you saw her if she answer "no" then maybe she looked at you but her mind is not present at that time and if she say "yes" then that's the time to ask her why she snob you..
have a nice day
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
She actually, asked my classmate at FB when she saw me comment on my classmate's account, who i was. And when my classmate said it's me, she requested me as friend because that's the only time she recognized me.
So from that , i surmise she didn't recognize me on that incident.
But i will still ask her, nonetheless.
