What to do !?!

@dobsyto (298)
Bulgaria
June 22, 2012 2:42pm CST
I really like one girl but I don't know what to do. I know her Facebook also I see her sometimes in the bus. She is so beautifull that I just don't know what to do... I'm usually not shy but when I see a girl that I really like from my first see... What you think? What should I do - First met her on facebook or just in real life? And if she say yes to go somewhere than where to go with her? I want something unique for her? Please help!?!
11 responses
• United States
22 Jun 12
Thats sweet, Hmm this comeing from a girl i know what i like so hope it helps you. For one dont worry about being shy talk to her on facebook to be friendly but, talk to her in real life to ask her out and if you want just ask her to go somewhere like friends. Maybe go to a park and take a walk have a picnic or take her out to dinner and a movie. It doesnt have to be way unquie the first time just bring her flowers maybe that would make you stand out.
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
22 Jun 12
Thank you. I could try to go out with her for simple friendly dinner. I'll try what you said and hope it works!
• United States
22 Jun 12
Your welcome! i wish you luck, let me know how it goes.
• Brazil
22 Jun 12
Hi, dobsyto. I think you should talk with her in real life first. I don't know, but if you talk with her in Facebook first, she would think that you are some kind of stalker. For me, the best way to start to talk with her is to say something that is commom for both of you, like the bus that you are or the weather, I don't know. After it, you try to know more information about her and then you ask her to go out with you. I think that it is the best way, because even you think she is very nice, on this way you will be able to know her a little. Happy mylotting and good luck.
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
22 Jun 12
Well I can try this. Only to catch the moment. Thank you.
• India
22 Jun 12
follow your heart brother. listen to what your says to you. i say meet her in real life and do things that would make her smile
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
22 Jun 12
Yeah I'll follow my heart and hope to not betray me.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
22 Jun 12
I think she is very special in you heart that was the reason why you get shy to her. You should introduce yourself to her personality so that both of you has the chance to know each other. If I were you I will bring here in the nearest park or restaurant were you can talk each other without any disturbance. Show your sincerity and gentleman to her, show your unique attitude and charm to her. Also dont forget to get her number after talking to her so that you can start a open communication with her. Goodluck, hope you can introduce yourself to her very soon.
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
22 Jun 12
Yes she is really important no matter that we don't have any relation. I should really find a place where we can talk without any disturbance. Thank you.
@ivade0000 (225)
• France
5 Jul 12
Well, I think it is wiser to meet her up in your real life. By doing so, you can know her much more better than simply chatting on facebook. What I usually do is to ask her out together to have fun with other friends as well, just trying to mix a bit and getting to know her better. After going out a few times with other friends, then only you can proceed to private dating. Usually I will bring her out for some movies or go to some restaurants. Then, it is finally time to seek for her decision either she wants to be with you or not. Normally, if she also has some feeling towards you, you will get a positive response. Good luck mate, cheers.
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
I think you should give it a try. Message her on facebook, be friends with her, ask her number, ask her out. But don't be hurry on things, just take your time to know each other. Know her likes and dislikes, just be yourself, be confident and just enjoy your time with her. Just make her feel that you really like her and she is special.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
23 Jun 12
Hi, your story reminds me of my own... LoL, but, I ain't gonna tell mine, am not here for that. What is happening to you is 'Love at first sight'. And its not bad. Just make sure that she gets to know about it. You'll need to make a friendly approach. That is the key! Frienly approach.. Don't stare at her too hard, that'll scare her away. So next time you are in the bus together, give her a friendly smile or if you're beside each other, just talk about something. Remember, a conversation is must; that is the only key to let her know that she's taken away your sleep and stolen your hunger.... FB isn't a bad idea. But you know a dame meets 'n' number of admirers online. And am sure you don't wanna end up one of 'em. So first step is 'get into conversation'. Don't find the difficulties and waste time, tackle 'em as they come in your way.... Good Luck!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
I think you should talk to her in facebook first like asking her about her day and stuff before talking to her personally. If she agree or say yes to you then i think you should set a date in a picnic style. Try to cook for her if possible. Being honest to what you feel is really important but you must take it slow. Or else she might get the wrong idea and you would not like that do you? Good luck to you and i truly wish that this would somehow work out with you
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
Well you could start by sending her a message and see how she reacts before you ask her out or something and please do not often send her message or else you will end up like a stalker.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
23 Jun 12
It is a sweet experience. In my opinion, maybe you can be patient, get close to her gradually. You could ask her for help, above all you much know her very much. best wishes.
@Shazooo (296)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 12
I'm a girl so this is what I'm think: I think you should talk to her more in real life, once you get to know her more, you can start chatting with her in fb. If you want to ask her out, you should do it over the phone...this is because if you do it in real life, and she rejects you, it could be seriously awkward for both of you and theres the fact that you may be very disappointed that you just want some time alone. So if you ask through a phone call, it could be less awkward and you can be alone immediately right after you throw away your phone in misery. But I Wish you best in luck with this girl! :)