How to be nicer

@dansazz (1058)
United States
July 2, 2012 8:37am CST
How can you train yourself to be nicer to people, when you are just a bitter person. Life is bad, and it seems everyone around you wants to make it worse. Except for the loved ones of course. How can you be genuinely nicer, not just slapping on a fake smile. Maybe you need to make yourself more happy first. I know that when I am really happy and excited, I tend to be much nicer to everyone. What are your thoughts on this?
5 responses
bLadeee
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
It's simple, be yourself, there's no secret. Just don't make your mistakes over and over again, once is enough to learn. Don't think negatively on why this thing happening to you but take it as a challenge. You can always listen to music to relax or do any of your hobby to lessen the tendency to think life is bad.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
2 Jul 12
Sometimes being yourself can be the reason you are not nice.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
4 Jul 12
Well, I am always myself, and everyone doesn't like it.
bLadeee
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
It's better to be yourself so you'll know who are really on you're side. You can always change for the better.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
4 Jul 12
I'm kind of nice person.My dad always told me to be kind and that can always help you to get along with other people.So i believe it is not bad.Why not to be happy with other people.So,a calm attitude and being inspired can help.Have a nice day.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
5 Jul 12
Because not all people are nice. In fact most are not. They will cheat you and scam you, and take advantage of you at every turn. Am I the only one who acts the way I feel inside? I fake happiness is not good enough for me.
Thoroughrob
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
2 Jul 12
If I am bitter about something, I try to stay to myself. I also start listening to music and trying to shake the mood. I have a son with Cerebral Palsy, and he has taught me to take one day at a time and to make the most of it. If he can be happy all the time with the pain he is in, then I should not complain.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
2 Jul 12
This is very good. It's good to have motivation and inspiration.
Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Jul 12
I don't usually get this way but if I do I stay away from anyone that will trigger me to scream, Lol. There is someone I can think of that really pushes my buttons so I would MOST definitely avoid that person. I am usually in a nice mood all the time. I try not to think too much though because that is when I do get upset about life.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
2 Jul 12
That's good to be in a nice mood most of the time. I really want to work on my people skills, it seems everything about people bugs me.
doroffee
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
2 Jul 12
When I'm in a super bitter mood, I usually take being nice as a challenge, and I love challenges. And if I do better than I would have expected, I usually praise or pamper myself with something.
dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
2 Jul 12
I don't like to pretend, unless I have to for work or something.