i made him get mad with me .
By dorothy172
@dorothy172 (984)
Malaysia
July 5, 2012 11:00am CST
recently i felt disappointed with someone who play an important role in my life. due to some reason, he made me feel don't want to talk to him, and don't even want to let him know where am i. just now, he whatsapp me and ask where am i, i just simply answer him with 'where am i is not important'. i think he has get mad with my answer, and he said the way i answered is so rude to him. even i know i shouldn't do that, but sometimes when you are disappointing with someone, you can't control your mind, and everything from the person come to you, you will feel uncomfortable, and you will not treat him well in talking or whatever. maybe after a certain time i should apologize to him, but right now, i really don't want to talk to him so far. am i so bad? ^^
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6 responses
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
7 Jul 12
Hi friend, your activity is right, i am also in your sort, if some one avoids me, i too do the same thing to them. AS you mentioned previously he avoid you, now you are doing the same to him, better to keep distance from him
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 12
maybe i really have to keep a distance with him, since he always make me feel unhappy. maybe i have to choose to have my own lifestyle... i don't want to because of someone else and make my life unhappy =)
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
I think you are not. It's natural reaction when you are disappointed with a person. Give your self a space and time to cool down then since he's one of important person in your life then surely you will find your self apologizing to him one day. Just don't allow disappointment eat you up for so long. Best of luck for you. :)
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 12
i will try my best not to eaten up by disappointment. i hope i can recover my emotion as soon as possible. thanks shylade
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
6 Jul 12
It is not bad but just tell them you need some alone time and when the time is right you will talk to them. If they are a true friend they will understand and give you your space. Be honest with him though on what is bothering you when you are ready to talk
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 12
yes, you are right, maybe i need some space and time for myself to calm down my mind. and when i am ready to talk to him again, then i will try to communicate with him =) thanks friend ^^ happy mylotting
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
5 Jul 12
You know the saying "Do not make promises when you are happy and decisions when you are sad or angry"? Well, I believe that this very practical and true. Your emotions can really disrupt your logic. What you have done is perhaps natural so do not be too hard on your self. What is important is that you have realized your mistake and you are willing to apologize for it. I'm sure it will be better if you do so and that it will lead to a better conversation towards fixing the main problem. Good luck to you!
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 12
ya, i will always remember this sentences as what you said, it is really true. when we are in happy or sad, we shouldn't do anything because our emotion and thinking is not stable at that time =)
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
Hi dorothy!
Haha...I don't think you as a bad person here coz i guess its just a normal thing for us to feel and act that way sometimes...coz I am also like that! I can no longer count ho many times do I did such thing to someone particularly to my husband! Well, I think he already knows me that much that sometimes my acts are no longer effective... but still I apologized when I am back to the "normal" me!
So I hope by this time, the to of you are already okay and that you already apologized to him!
Haha...I don't think you as a bad person here coz i guess its just a normal thing for us to feel and act that way sometimes...coz I am also like that! I can no longer count ho many times do I did such thing to someone particularly to my husband! Well, I think he already knows me that much that sometimes my acts are no longer effective... but still I apologized when I am back to the "normal" me!
So I hope by this time, the to of you are already okay and that you already apologized to him!
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Jul 12
Well, I think it's human nature and we all get mad at one time or another. Most people eventually make amends when all the hot air blows over, and in fact I think it's healthy for a relationship to have their ups and downs. That means you'll be able to work through issues and even become closer afterwards. I know that's the case with my husband. We also have a very close family friend who we've had disagreements in the families with but yet he's very close to us and we're respectful of each other. Don't take it to heart. I hope things will work out between you and your friend.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 12
ya, hope that just as what you said, after a certain time we can be more closer and can have a better communication betwee us. if not, i really don't know how to communicate with him right now =)
