omg love gone worst in present world

India
July 9, 2012 6:46am CST
i really dont understand what many does in the name of love , i think friendship and love has changed ,i mean the meaning is exchanged . i see many a boy and girl chatting in phone for hours at night and day too , and they say that they are just had a formal talk and nothing else..its funny to know that the formal talk go into kissing too in phone...but that is just a friends talk. on the other hand i have a friend who is loving a girl , and look at what they talk about , hows going in home , life ,future plans and all..this seems very much formal and they say that they are lovers ... i see that real lovers talk decently and very much in matured way then they people in the name of friendship does ..i mean a boy and a girl been friend.. just as an passing cloud they does that flirty talk and who know what all they do in term of just an friend;....
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6 responses
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Well it simple some lovers started as friends some are just flirting, some just denying the truth that they want each other too and they hide in terms of being friends.
• Bangladesh
9 Jul 12
Love is now just like a mirage of dessert. Looks like it exists but not in real. Only photo copy loves available and we being pathetically hypnotised by it repeatedly.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Jul 12
Yeah as time goes on the terms of friendship and a relationship has changed. Many people say that they are just friends with someone when they are actually dating. Even if they say they aren't when they talk to that person consistently, and perhaps go out etc, that is the definition of dating. They just try to change it in there own head.
@kkaria309 (297)
• United States
9 Jul 12
It is true. It is a mark of love that it does not need to prove itself in any specific way. But nowadays, people do so many things in the name of friendship. Friendship seems like a synonym for 'casual affair' to me. Maybe when they say FRIENDS, they mean girlFRIEND and boyFRIEND. It is hard for friends who really are just friends, because people judge them based on others' behaviors.
9 Jul 12
Yes it seems it's so hard to recognize now the meaning of love. People say they are just friends but what they are doing are like for lovers. They spent many hours talking on the phone but they are just friends. they say sweet words but then everything is considered as friends. I'd rather name this act as flirting if we are doing this to our opposite gender.
• India
9 Jul 12
Hi friend, i agree, the real lovers are always matured and think about their life, whereas the persons who are flirting and pretending as friends are spoiling their life with this kind of unwanted talks. They may have fun and enjoyment while talking this kind of rubbish things, but merely they are wasting their time and money with this kind of unwanted conversations