How not to fall in-love?

Philippines
July 13, 2012 11:13am CST
I live with this girl in the same house, this is a big house that is why at least 5 families live here. There is this girl who I always see in our kitchen when it is time to prepare dinner, we got close and started hanging out she tell me stories, I tell her jokes and sometimes she ask me to help her in her assignments. One time, I kinda told her that I like her and she replied that she likes me too. The problem is we are both in a relationship, and I do not want to hurt my girlfriend. I tried avoiding her by preparing dinner earlier but the moment I see her I feel uncomfortable, maybe it is because she always makes me laugh and she is fun to be with. Can you give me some advice so I can stop myself from falling in love with her.
2 responses
@nathan27 (34)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
Your present situation is not easy... you're caught in a dilemma between following you're feelings or trying to avoid hurting someone. But i guess you've already decided. You're asking for an advice how to stop from falling in love with this girl, well i guess you choose to stick with you're girlfriend.is it worth it? is that what you really want? is that what can make you happy? either way, you already did hurt someone... . now tell me, who weighs more?
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
Sometimes I feel that I am happy with my girlfriend, but sometimes I feel that I will be happier with her. I do not really know what to do
@ravi770 (248)
• India
13 Jul 12
hello sonic... i read your story and i think you fell in love already.. and now if you want to drop , its not easy for you and you can't ignore her for long time because you both live in a home... so just control your feelings and talk with her clearly and make good friendship...
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
I am doing my best so we will both be just friends, but as I just said I feel uncomfortable when I talk to her.