staying with someone for the money

Romania
July 14, 2012 11:18am CST
I don't get people who stay with someone for financial reason. I mean how would you accept that person to touch you when she/he doesn't attract you and expect afterwards to recieve money..... there are girls who waste their most beautiful years staying with old men... my doctor started a relationship with a girl that is younger than his own daughter. I was in shock when I found out. He was the last person I expected to do that
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9 responses
• United States
15 Jul 12
Why are you so shocked, he is also a man besides your doctor. and Never assume a younger woman is with an older guy Just for the money only.There could be true feelings there!It is true many people can and do sleep with people for money but to assume that All young women with older guys Are doing this is wrong. Do not blame your doctor. Wouldn't you want to be with someone who makes you feel good? I'm assuming it is mutual. the Doctor gets a young thing and his lady gets to be treated as a princess of sorts. older guys Seem to know how to treat a female like a lady if you know what I mean. That is why I say Not All women are there Just fopr the money.It all depends on the couple.
• Romania
15 Jul 12
as long as he was capable to hit his daughter in the face for that woman he is to blame in my opinion. as long as he was capable to kick his wife and son out of the house...he is to blame. what he does with his life is his problem...but his kids don't have any fault that he realised a 40 years younger girl is his "true love"
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• United States
15 Jul 12
Time to get a new doctor! Any many who would hit a woman or a girl has no compassion, Period. In fact he is no man at all. Now I fear for his new girlfriend.She may not be treated like a lady at all.It does happen. An Older man falls for the younger woman. And many do divorce the wife and married the younger woman. That is normal. But to hit your child is not. To not support your ex is not. Over here the wife lawyers up and many cases gets half his assets. With Monsters like this , the wife is thankfully free but the girlfriend/ new wife? I fear for her. There is no amount of money worth getting hit for!
• Romania
15 Jul 12
they don't want to divorce...they split the apartament and each got a room. and he's in fact capable of bringing the other woman in the apartament. now I don't want to put myself in the wife's position. as a doctor he's really good and I thrust him...but as human...I don't want to comment.
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• United States
15 Jul 12
Actually, NOT everyone stays with someone for financial reasons that you are referring to. I got pregnant and married someone when I was only 21. It wasn't until later that I learned not only did he have little to no money, I also came to the realization that he repulsed me! I was in a hard place though-I couldn't afford to start over with a baby and too proud to admit to everyone that I had made a colossal mistake. In another life, perhaps I'll be smarter and find someone to take care of me...just as long as they don't turn me off!
• Romania
15 Jul 12
I never said that everyone does it. just that there are some girls who do it. for example one of my friends started a relationship like this...and later on she realised that he had other 3 relationships at the same time...guess the table turns one way or another
• United States
16 Jul 12
Wow! How did your friend feel when she found out? And I didn't mean to infer what you were writing about, but at least two of your responses refer to couples getting together due to an unexpected pregnancy rather than a "Sugar Daddy"-type relationship.
• Romania
16 Jul 12
you can imagine...I advised not to start this relationship from the very begining but she didn't listen to me.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
15 Jul 12
I don't judge a love between an old man and young girl when it is truly love. the difference age, around 15-20 years, is still ok i think but if it is more than 20 years, it maybe a problem for a couple later in marriage life.
• United States
15 Jul 12
Sometimes that age difference WORKS too. It also could be that neither had met their soul mate before. I know that previous relationship I was in, I was madly in love with a man 11 years older than I. I didn't feel that there was anything wrong-we had some similar views, but in the end, I don't think he would have given me his whole heart and that's why I broke it off.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
16 Jul 12
oh, really? Ya, you did right when he wouldn't have given you his whole heart...
• Malaysia
14 Jul 12
As the saying goes, a man gotta do what a man gotta to survive or in that young girl case, to achieve or have things that she would find it hard if she doesn't do that. Of course it's a waste but what can we as the society do? We also can't fault the girl cause the doctor advance towards her was morally wrong in the first place. But who are we to decide if such relationship is not love? We can never know what started the relationship. Maybe both are lonely and found comfort in each other.
• Romania
15 Jul 12
probably it depends on how you were raised but to expect money from a man it means you don't respect yourself as a woman...I like to think that I;'m smart enough to achieve what I want and get the things that I want
@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 12
First off, just because young beautiful ladies married old men doesn't mean that they're gold diggers, though in truth there are some people who are just after the money. What I'm saying is we are so quick to judge. Who knows if your doctor and the young lady really are in love? We might never know..
• Romania
15 Jul 12
come on....he gives her money for anything...she's simply taking advantage of him. I'm not saying that in all the cases is like this but in most of them it applies. and there is no money in the wolrd that would convince me to do that
@doroffee (4230)
• Hungary
15 Jul 12
I don't understand them either. I just can't understand how someone can be that materialistic to use a person who loves them (except for... well, if they guy doesn't love her either, just wants a sexbomb to brag with, well, he kind of deserves to be treated that way) and give up all emotions just to have a Prada bag. I just pity these girls and despise them.
@natliegleb (5184)
• India
14 Jul 12
That is really horrible to hear anytime for sure since i wont even try to do that,that is attrocious and waste of our living lives.it is not the right way and in this world money cant buy everything,this are all incidents which has happened in haste.better to be in the safe rather than try for some financial comfort
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
14 Jul 12
There could not be enbough money in the world to get me to stay with someone that I really did not want to be with . I have to be with someone because i love and care for them. Money would not be something to make me like them any more or feel any differently.
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
14 Jul 12
Yeah very much true. Nowadays relationships are being made on money basis. Once you are rich and live a luxurious life, you are flooded with requests to start a relationship. i mean these kind of relationships are very much short lived.