Missing Him...
By nathan27
@nathan27 (34)
Philippines
July 21, 2012 9:30am CST
Got nothing to think/write for now, so not in the mood to do so. All I'm thinking right now, is that I miss him. We've been together for 6years as bf/gf, and we are away from each other once, just for a month because of his work. The relationship was really not doing well. I admit,I always find ways to get angry and test him to make him leave his job and go home. He did resign of his job, and told me it was his choice. And now, for 8 months together as husband and wife, this is our first time to be away from each other. It was only some days of work related activity away from home, yet days are too slow to pass by. I miss him so much.
My friends once told me that I'm too attached to him. I can't moved/live without him. I'm too dependent that their afraid when the time comes that he(my husband) will be away for a long time (probably work abroad or work away from home). What will I do or How can I survive? I can't blame them having those thoughts, well it's true. WHAT IF?
(Got to be more understanding now, things are not the same as before. I have to be mature enough and not think only of myself.)
2 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
6 years is a good investment to know each other.
Misunderstanding is just a part of it nothing to worry.
Sometimes being away from each other is also good to have some space and make you feel you miss each other.
Faith and honesty is the main trust in a relationship to keep it stronger as time goes by.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
21 Jul 12
if at all anytime you feel that you are missing him and feeling quite desperate for him,just go for him,hug him and feel comfortable conveying all the things which you feel about him and share your thoughts for him.Ideally if you be quiet and keep the feelings and wavelength will be missing ultimately and no use in caring for him.
Just find a best way to express it at any cost rather than shying away from it.
I trust you are mature and you care for him rather than being selfcentered.thats a ggog approach altogether
