Purposely getting pregnent?

@911Ricki (13602)
Canada
July 21, 2012 3:44pm CST
A girl I went to college with just message me on facebook saying she's supposeable pregnent. She just met and started dating this guy on the 25th of June (not even a month). She then said she purposely did it, everyone else is so why not her. I just shock my head in disbelief at that. I asked her why, and how she's going the support the child as she has never worked a day in her life, and the new man hasn't work in months. I was telling this to a friend I went to school with, just wondering why on earth would you purpose have a kid when you can't afford it, living with your parents, and find it fine to go collect welfare now (she claims she doesn't have to work now). This long time friend told me about her close friend doing this to keep her boyfriend of two years (clearly it worked since he up and left her with a child). This friend said it goes back to parenting and the lifestyle these people have. I never looked at it, just thought they were stupid. But all the people I know going having kids purposely never had to work, pay their way in life, dependent on others, out partying, and such.
7 responses
@maximax8 (28490)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 12
It is very strange that this young lady didn't use birth control and she on purpose got pregnant just one month into a relationship. I can't understand why living with her parents and being so young why she would want to have a baby. If a young lady has a baby then continuing her education will be challenging or not possible at all. That is because she will need someone to give her baby child care. It will be equally challenging to work and this is needed to bring in money. Young people usually like to be studying, partying and working. It isn't possible to party when you have a baby to care for. A young baby needs care around the clock. It is years before the baby will grow up enough to go to school. I can understand a surprise pregnancy due to birth control failing. However getting pregnant on purpose is crazy unless you have a place to live of your own and enough money.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
HAh??? She purposely get pregnant just to make sure she can have the guy?? It's too risky if she know that. What if that way won't work out?? Then what will she do?? She should think deeper before make the decision.
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
22 Jul 12
omg! this is the best conversation today! this topic flares me up real good. i am dealing with two dumb ding bats in my family who do just that. my fat sister in law has been trying to get pregnant since she was 16. she finally, at age 26, got into voluntary homelessness, met this guy while and the street and after a couple of months of knowing him, got pregnant. now ding bat is putting another nail in tax payer's coffin by living off welfare and ssi. i don't think she ever had a job longer than a week (probably only about 5 at that!)when she had no kids, she had a husband who was paying her way through school, giving her money, and she didn't have to pay any bills! she left all that to go out on the street and find some else to get her pregnant. her husband didn't want to because of how fat, lazy, and sloppy he came to learn about her. another ding bat in my family. another sister in law, gets pregnant just so she could keep my brother. she REALLY burned my butt with that. not only do we not like her, she set the female race back 1,000 years! she had the nerve to post her job on face book as , "baby maker". now, this stupid broad will do stuff like get abortions when she is loose with her body and doesn't want to keep the man. then finally one day, she gets her nose open to the fact that my brother would trade her without even thinking about it........she traps him and gets pregnant. i wanted to slap the harlot when she said, "he, he he, now we are sisters for life". they both have one thing in common and you are right. they both were worthless, problematic, and stupid before having kids. there reasons behind having kids were irrational and immature. they both come from enormously feeble minded single mothers who were worse then they were...then and now. people should have to get a license to have children. complete with psycho evals.
@bunnybon7 (36901)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Jul 12
such things have been going on for centuries when it comes to stupid women having babies just to keep a man. i dont understand it myself even tho im a woman. and for about 30yrs now some ive met have actually had kids to get on welfare i know my daughter has to work to survive and lots of other girls because here in az you dont get help of any kind unless you have kids. and gals who arent lazy would rather work for money.
@Raine38 (9116)
• United States
21 Jul 12
That's a very wrong reason to have a baby. And then later on, she will wonder where she went wrong when the kid grew up to have no regards to morals. People like her shouldn't be given rights to get pregnant, if they want to destroy their own lives then fine, but I really can't find any logical explanation why she would need to involve a new person's life in her selfish schemes.
@Marino57 (18)
• United States
21 Jul 12
.......Wow....... that sounds selfish all around, she needs a reality check! Im really stunned over the situation. I dont understand people sometimes, How is that any life for a child? Children are suppose to be a precious gift, not something to be used to live a life they think is freedom.
@riyauro (6428)
• India
21 Jul 12
oh what a stupid girl, She just wants to get pregnant? Because of this kind of people, there are kids who are suffering. How can one be so selfish? Just because others so it, doesn't mean you to do it as well. Some people just don't have anything better to do in life. what a crazy world we live in.