July 22, 2012 1:07am CST
When I first met him, he was the best friend you could ever want to have. Then we become lovers then a couple. Finely we get married. Now what you are married you start cheating on me. Then we have kids. And the cheating continues. Then you leave me for someone that looks like a man. How should I feel?
• South Africa
22 Jul 12
Awww :) Broken hearted are we? I do sympathize. People do grow. They grow up. They grow into things. They grow out of things. Your man has moved on from being in love with you, to being in love with someone else. And it will hurt as long as you take it so seriously. Best is to lighten up, realise things for how they actually are, and work something out where you can him both are in the kids' lives. You were probably best as friends anyway, as you said. Become that again. And if you're still looking for intimacy, you might try finding another man who may actually love you again.
3 Aug 12
I have tried to move on. He does not want to see me happy. He wants his cake and eat it too.He can have another but I cant. He runs all my friends off and threatens to kill them. But he keeps giving me the idea that he is coming back. Tired of the emotional roller coaster. He is in the kids life but not like he should be. And I dont want to be friends I want my husband back.