asking a friend to pretend to be a boyfriend

I won't deny that most of us have this tendency to get even with people who we seem to believe that have wronged us in one way or another. We end up spending a good amount of time and effort on planning something elaborate just to feel that we have gained the upper hand between them. Wanting to get even with someone usually comes from being jealous or envious about whatever it is that the other has gained, acquired or have been recognized with. Perhaps the credit has been granted to someone who we deem as unworthy. There are many situations of course that we can think about and we can only imagine what this 'friend' of yours did to you to piss you off which makes you want her to be pissed off as well. On my part, I have considered the idea of which you have mentioned in your discussion. There was this time when I felt that it would really help if I had someone who would pretend to be my girlfriend and I even jokingly told it to someone who I believe wouldn't turn me down when I would suggest it. She even replied that it would cost me a good amount of money. (^_^") I really didn't get to push through with the idea at all. And good thing it didn't for starting something entirely from a lie that nobody else really knows would seem to them as the truth. And when that starts, it would just continue one lie after another. Simply put, when you start something bad, and you are fully aware that it is indeed a bad thing, even if it might be just a small bad thing, it is still bad and it would build up and get bigger and bigger until it will just come back at you. Law of Cause and Effect or some would refer as Karma. So for the question, yes, I have tried to ask someone to pretend that we have a relationship, but it didn't really materialize. Yet, if ever given the chance to have that same situation like yours and have the option to ask a friend the same question, I would definitely not since I know how it would all end up later on. I know this might be easier said than done, but it would be better if you confronted your 'friend' and appeal to her better judgement as you open up that issue which made you have that feeling of hate towards her. That way, you won't have to ask another friend to lie with you and you would find out if you are really friends with that 'friend' of yours which you seem to want to have that 'revenge with a bang' with. Well, that's just my idea anyway (^_^")

hi l_g, Well I don't know yet maybe it depends upon the situation I have this kind of friends you have in fact I am trying to ignore them though it breaks my heart. happy mylotting