Real friends make you feel really happy! Have you experienced true friendship?

That's awesome! I'm glad you were able to make it through the pain somehow! I agree with you too. Most people can't live in a shell. Most need to have others in their life. G-d must have blessed you greatly to get where you are! I personally like my shell. I have decorations, and I painted it a nice shade of blue. Have some nice carpet. I'm perfectly happy in my nice shell! LOL Best to you Dainy :)

Cherish!! What nice for you too and your boyfriend!! My husband was my first boyfriend too. Let me explain it better. I was 13 and he was 15, we were "couple" for 6 months (we were kids), then we ended, and stay just like friends, just friends for 10 years, real friends. And then we began dating, we got engaged and then married. . It happens similar to me with my old friends, some are abroad, and we moved to another city, too. But I think that distance can show you who remains as a friend. That kind of friendship is true friendship. Even in they are busy, you know that if you have to talk with someone you just can pick the phone and they are there. What happened to you in the college is very common. They just are girls without a self personality, that just like what you want. Isn´t it? I hated that too. Blessings for you both!...

Yes we feel comfortable with true friends, God bless real friendship!

Mannu this is so sweet!! You recalled my childhood friends. I´m so glad for you both. We cannot walk alone through life. We are social beings. Made though to socialize. Even if we have been hurt someday, we are called to live in community. When you have standing by and supporting you in bad times they become a great relief, and we feel true friendship. After writting this discussion, I went through a big problem with a guy. I felt sad, anxious and in crisis, so I thought in two friends, immediately. I can tell you both of them are my best friends. Why? Because I can trust each one of them things that I could not trust everybody. Even things that I can´t trust to my mother or my brother. I phoned the first. She is grandma of 6 children, she elder than me for almost 15 years, we are together in a church ministry. It was 10 o`clok late night. I asked to talk to her at that time. And she received me in her home from 10 to 11 o`clock. She heard at me. She let me talk as much as I needed, and after hearing my problem she gave me an advice. She told me she loved me and was worried about me, so she gave me her best advice without judging me. Later on the next morning, after taking children to school, I phoned my second friend. Whom I met in my 14th birthday, she knows everthing about me, and my past. Even I had a dairy wich I used to borrow her. We were like soulmates when we were teen. She is older than me for 5 years, she has been in wheelchair since two years before I met her. She knows every corner of my soul. So I phoned her to another country where she lives now. She told me if I wanted her to phone me back because it was an international call. I denied, of course. We talked by phone almost for an hour. I told her every single detail of my problem. She heard me without complain. And recalling our life together she gave me her best advice. Yesterday evening, I was feeling my heart plain of love and hapiness, and I knew it was because I talked about my problem with my best friends. Good bless true friendship! Don´t you think so? Blessings to you mannu and your friend