got scared with the wife of that boy ;-| {feeling odd, ulk}

@missjahn (4578)
Philippines
July 26, 2012 4:56am CST
gee, i shared an experience here last time that i had talked with my ex - bf. well for me, it was just a simple talk, a conversation asking how are we doing in life after we separated ways. i am pretty sure that he is already a married man with one daughter. but annoyance with this kind of guy because he tried to hit back what is being left. i do not know he have thus kind of intention. i stopped her because of a limit but gee, even is he is single until now, no reason for me to turn back to him. i have no feeling for him at all. whatever his purpose, well, he will fail, i am hundred percent sure. okay, what i am being scared of is that; as i opened my email notification just now in my fb, i'd got a letter introducing herself as his wife. and asking sorry for what his husband were doing. maybe she read the conversation we had. she told me that his husband is really naughty and now, it is up to me if i will still deal with his husband. so i replied, do not you worry madam for i know my limits and i do not have an intention to ruin what was being built through times. gosh, i am scared and at the same time feeling odd about that. gee ;-|
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@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
Oh I think you shouldn't be scared at all. She was pretty nice and I've experienced much, much worse. For instance, when I added an old high school boyfriend of mine on a social networking site (because I was the organizer of the high school reunion) I got an angry message from the current wife telling me to back off. I also met with an old high school classmate (whom I had a crush on in the past) and the tables seem to have been turned because he is now the one who has a crush on me. We were simple exchanging text messages when I received a call from a woman (who is his wife that he never told me about) telling me to back off again. I have a lot of male friends and more than once I've been told by their girlfriends to back off. Which is annoying since the guys and I have been friends for so long! Especially during my birthday I like to call people and invite them to go out. These girlfriends are totally paranoid and are suspicious of their boyfriends having a female friend. The best thing to do is you you to totally cut communication with that guy. Like me with the second guy I mentioned in this post--I stopped communicating with him since I found out he was married. We are not friends, and his intentions on me were implied.
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
yes you are right at that. she explained something about her husband which was okay. but to say, i know the intention of the guy and feeling awkward about it. it is not being easy if your husband is trying to court another girl. i understand her position. maybe i was being shocked at first and unable to adapt the first impulsiveness i received during that time. i realized that her husband is one of her possession and she must guard her family if she want it as whole till end. i understand her and feeling for her. thanks ;)
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
When men cheat, some women would either give the other woman hell, or give their man hell. She did neither. So I think that is the mark of excellent character. Help her solve their marital problems by distancing yourself, and you'll find you'll be less stressed about them. They figure out their problem, you go on with your life.
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
that is the best thing to do. but to say even if he is still single, i do not love the man anymore, so even when he appeal to me again, no use for that, coz it would never be if am to ask. that is why i feel odd about it when i sensed something fishy on his intention. i feel revolution inside, gee, feeling of uneasiness. but right at that, better to back off a great distance to free myself to whatever consequence that might happened and be the reason why a family being bonded as one will be broken. it is not tolerable, gosh! how to repay that?