How Would You Feel If You Were Cheated On?

United States
July 26, 2012 10:43pm CST
In light of the whole Kirsten Stewart cheating on Robert Pattinson, I decided to ask this question. Personally I could care less about Kirsten and Robert, since to me it seems many celebrities make this mistake. That's just me. Anyway, if you were cheated on how would it make you feel? Would you give that person a second chance? The way I see it, cheating is wrong, it proves that a person is not only disrecpectful and decietful, but they have also shown they cannot be trusted. Sure people make mistakes, but cheating is one of the worst ones next to murder. Would you cheat on someone you loved and cared for with all your heart? Then again if you really loved that person, you wouldn't cheat. So be honest here, are you a cheater, or have you been cheated on? How did it make you feel either way?
3 responses
@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
27 Jul 12
Yep I was cheated on but my ex was a real pig. I left of course so now he is with this other woman who was married as well and because she was his boss he got a promotion But yeah I felt so sick to my stomache when I found out that I couldn't eat for a week. I was so upset
• United States
27 Jul 12
WOW what a pig indeed! That ex of yours sure didn't care about your relationship. Don't hate me for this but I don't even know what it's like to be cheated on. I've never cheated on anyone so it's a different thing. I do have friends who were cheated and I am sorry it had to happen to you. You deserve someone much better who will love you and appreciate you.
• Australia
27 Jul 12
I don't hate you, that's everyones reacton because that's the truth. I was just used and discarded it felt like. I was very young and had low self confidence and self esteem but when I grew up and couldn't be bossed around anymore he found another one to boss around instead. He's a real pig and has no respect for women And I do deserve better, everyone deserves to find someone who will love and respect them but these days that's hard to find
27 Jul 12
Sweetie, I am so happy that you found the strength to leave him! I know some people who would allow themselves to be stepped on thinking and hoping that he or she will change. Even if they do come back, it is as if they are being taken for granted. You should just move on with your life if that someone cheats, that way, you realize there are more important things and the world really is a big,big place . When you have reached a new perspective on life and your so called ex comes back, you will be more mature and really think, if he is right for you,if he even deserves to share the same vicinity as you. I know that you feel really down but perhaps, the way it works is that the right one will come when you least expect it. Take time to fall in love with yourself again, self-confidence is like this total babe magnet.And come on, as your name suggests, babycheetah!I am sure there is spunk in you. I sound like a total feminist, LOL. Try watching 500 days of summer. Even if there is no cheating involved in the movie, I'm sure you will learn the lesson they conveyed. All the best!
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I will not cheat. But if my wife cheated on me, I would encourage her to pack her things and go live with the other guy. In fact, I'd insist. If I'm not good enough, then I'm not good enough, and by all means get your stuff and leave.
• United States
27 Jul 12
That's exactly how I would see it if my husband cheated on me. Lucky for me that I have never been cheated on and I have never cheated. It's sad that some people have to do that. It shows they were never in-love after all.
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I don't judge them as it be just for lust but not love, in her case as she said she love her bf and so if she love him then why that thing to other guy even just for respect thinking she have a bf, on the other hand it might be the Director who brainwashed her about things that only guy will know. Anyway they might just both tired and away from their love ones and once lust strike then love cant stop them, its just so happened that it was captured behind.