Lovers' Quarrel
By bocknoy
@bocknoy (32)
Philippines
July 29, 2012 6:27pm CST
Women tend to be rather emotional over a fight with their boyfriends. They usually take the issue seriously to the point of not eating or sleeping at all for days. I don't know much about men; but from my experience, they don't seem to be as bothered as women are when a lovers' quarrel happens. They are not much of a talker, but more into getting things resolved when the right time comes. We can't change the way men and women are, but is there something that women can do to deal with lovers' quarrels better?
4 responses
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Sep 12
Some woman will never stop talking they just continue to make the argument worse . I am a woman but I know that even if I disagree with my partner we never go to been arguing , we always make up and we never argue for over a hour . Never be too stubborn and full of pride in a relationship . Never be too proud to admit when your wrong are just say lets not fight anymore I love you .
@firstbourne (6)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
Yes. It is the nature of women to be more emotional, while men are typically rational. when upset over a relationship, all aspect's of her life will be affected to--studies, work, etc. But then, every woman should know that heartaches are normal, and it will not be resolved by crying the night over. keeping her mind off of the issue, getting busy over something more important can help. Well, at the time nothing can be more important to her than to patch things up with her significant other, so it is better to act and not react on it. You may visit http://socyberty.com/relationships/avoiding-sleeplessness-after-a-lovers-quarrel/for more info.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
30 Jul 12
Yep, I tend to really take it to heart. And I don't want to sleep without making up or talking it out. But my husband prefers to have space first, give time to calm down before facing the issue. He's just not into confrontations at the moment of argument. He just wants his space and time, then when he's ready to talk he will.
@dnoblec (3)
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30 Jul 12
Learn to compromise, that's one secret of a healthy relationship. Plus respect and lots of patience.
