Do you hate it when people ask for your help and then don't listen?

I will feel the same way if someone who have asked for my help and not follow my advice. In the first place, he is the one who seeks your help. What's the purpose of asking for help if he won't heed to your advice.

Hi Dominique25!. I think most men poor with details. I see this with my brothers he not bothers to write every thing. Like writing address usually he see it and try to memorize it. When he is on the way there he often calling me home ask to search the address or looking in the internet because he can not remember it . My mom often mad at him because this matters and because he never make preparation when leave. He often had to work out of town but he is not prepare all his need when had to go. I usually become chaotic morning, like were my tie!, were my towel! and soon.

I don't particulary hate the fact that people ask for my help and then don't listen and heed the advice. It is more of a disappointment when this happens. I mena why even bother asking for someone's help if they have no intention of listening.

well yeah that could be frustrating sometimes because not all the time we are free to help people. my boyfriend is also like that sometimes, but i understand him because he is a very busy and hard working man. he doesn't have time for some things anymore, so i do the work for him. i would ask him if there is something i can do to help him and i do it. he is far away from me right now, he is in new york and i am here in philippines but even though we are far from each other, i see to it that i can help him even though it is hard. it is the least i can do. and yes that also happened when i told him that we can just talk about it or something when he is ready to listen and can focus on what i am saying haha

Hi friend, i wonder, why your hubby don't write out the important things? your suggestion is right, if he notes it while you are telling, he will save time for sure and avoid doing the same thing again in the next day. Surely we will be irritated with this kind of persons whoever need our help, but not listening our suggestion. If i am in your place, i too stop helping him again, as i am not interested in doing the same work again and again

There are some people have this high, they don't admit weaknesses. It is really frustrating if they don't accept some suggestions. As they said, two heads are better than one.

For sure,basically if they ask us anything,we get on to the mood to help them but if they keep ignoring us so badly and does not expect us a good reply and it is annoying for sure.we have to create interest and generate buzz to attract them effectively

Well, i this case, better you leave him do his own way since he didn't listen u after asking your help.

I do, If they don't follow my advice, why the hell they are asking for it? I mean, if they tell in advance they might not take it, or ask more people, I understand. But if they come up begging to me for advice, tell what they plan to do, I tell them why it's wrong and my advice... and they don't take it, and then everything goes wrong and come up to me again... and then call me rude or cruel when I start with asking why they come up to me and ask for advice if they keep neglecting it, and call ME ignorant... that's so annoying.

Yes, I hate it when people as for my help and then don't listen to me. And I always think that why they ask for my help if they don't listen. It is too bad.

I also don't like when people asks for help and then wouldn't even want to help themselves. It is frustrating; if they want to do things their own, then they shouldn't have asked for help in the first place. To avoid further conflicts, when I sensed that that is what's going to happen before I even start, I will just ask the person seeking my help if he/she wants to just d o it by her/himself, or if I'm still needed, what he/she wants to do anyway.

That's really frustrating.I think your husband has done wrong and maybe he didn't listen or maybe he is lazy.However,it's a waste of time for both of you when he asked for help for the same thing next day.

Definitely. Why in the first place do they have to ask for your help and not listen? It is totally a waste of time and effort. For me, if that is the attitude of someone I am helping, I'm sorry there won't be a second time because it is clear to me that they are uninterested.

yeah, i feel uncomfortable if people ask for my help but don't listen. if someone did, maybe i won't give him any hlep when he ask for my help next time. i will get angry becuase i think he doesn't respect me. but you think again, maybe he doesn't think your help i useful so he doesn't listen. he is not satisfied with your way to solve problem. maybe he is right, so you don't need to angry or think it's just to waste time. you just need to talk with each other and find out why they don't listen.

Well, some people just don'?t like to listen or to be given instruction. He may have asked your assistant in looking for the location of store, however he may not be expecting you to make suggestion on writing the address down. The one at fault seems to be him as he js just too lazy to write the address down. Anyway, you should not show your dissatisfaction and not helping him write as doing so may just worsen or causes fights between you two.