he dumped me

@iamJB7 (122)
Philippines
July 31, 2012 10:06am CST
I pity myself. It's been 2years since he broke up with me. I still keep on thinking on him. I have several boyfriends after him but I keep on comparing them to my ex(the one that I really love) the person who dumped me. For two years after the break-up I really don't have a serious relationship. I still love him and I really hate myself for that. He was happy now and I'm not. There's still missing and I know it's him.
4 responses
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
It is really idealistic love someone forever, but things will not be the same thing.
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
oh, how sad. I hope your now okay. Move on anyway. Pain of the heart would heal eventually. It may took longer than you think but I am sure you would. Please do not compare your current/future boyfriend to your ex. Because whatever you do would never be contented in your present relationship. Why not focus on the your boyfriend's positive aspects. Neglect every negative thinking and eventually you will earn your happiness. We are still young and there are many things to be encountered soon.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
It appears that you need to look for others as your source of happiness. Easier said than done but that's the thing. Who knows, time will tell, you will end up again with each other. For now, just give yourself a chance to spend some time with others, you may find someone who can replace him, who can love you more than your ex and eventually love him more than you love your ex. Thanks
31 Jul 12
As much as I would like to say something about this, I think I'm not in the right position to do so. It is because, I, myself is also afraid that this could also happen to me. I'm still on a moving on stage and I am not really sure if I could ever get over with my ex. This post of yours really worries me. I would hate myself if I would compare my future partner with my ex boyfriend. I think we must just have to MOVE ON and LET GO. I know it sounds impossible but just try to "make his happiness your happiness." I mean, be happy for him. As for you.. stop being miserable.