Do you get frustrated with a family members inability to plan things?

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I know that things like this seem to happen in our family a lot. But today I was really frustrated. My husband is trying to buy a business where he will have different accounts in different areas. As some of you know that we will have to move out of our house by September 1st since our landlord has moved back to our state. I have been telling my husband that he needs to get everything done with his business plan so that he can talk with the bank, and to get whatever else he needs figured out so that we know where we are. I have been making arrangements for us to move to a town that is 30 minutes away from where we live now. Then today he tells me that he has just "NOW" (this evening calculated) the distances between the work place he will have to be at. He said that it will be 131 miles driving there one way in one night. I was thinking to myself you have got to be kidding. You just are now figuring that stuff out. So he says that we will not be able to live in the area I was planning on us going. So he is basically saying that some how I should find us a place two and half hours away that we can move to in four weeks. Mind you we are cutting it pretty close with finances trying to move 30 minutes. So I told him that I'm going through with the plans for the place where I'm looking at unless he goes to the bank and gets the loan approved. Because at the rate he is getting things done we will be homeless if i wait on him to figure out where we are going. He just does not get things done. And then when things go haywire he gets all upset when all he had to do was plan better and work to carry things out. I'm not going to plan on moving two and half hours without knowing if we can get the loan for the bank. The 30 minute location for our home is in the vicinity of my job and his. If we move further away without really knowing what is happening we will both be out of a job.