Attracting the Attractive. Are you?
By mikyung
@mikyung (2232)
Philippines
August 2, 2012 9:45am CST
I just read some lines regarding this lovely word.
C H A R M
Charm is the art of having an attractive personality. This characteristic can be achieved only over a period of time. While everyone is born with differing amounts of natural charm, much can be acquired and honed through practice and patience. As with dancing, the more you practice, the better you will become.
Do you believe you have the charm?
What are the things you usually do to improve?
Or is innate or it is really being developed?
Any thoughts?
Thank you very much.
6 responses
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
3 Aug 12
Well I would say that I maybe do have charm, but only certain people see that if that makes sense. I'm quite shy and don't warm up to people easily, those people probably see me as either being boring or snobby. Once someone gets to know me, I do believe I have an attractive personality. Maybe if a stranger was hiding in the corner watching me associate with someone I trust, then they could witness my charm.
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
2 Aug 12
CHARM! well for me it is all about the way you are. Your real personality counts to this. If you work on improving your personality, you would be all charming. Along with this, you should be confident about who you are and what you are doing.
If you lack this confidence you would more look like an hypocrite.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
2 Aug 12
I have a good outgoing personality. When you do, it is your responsibility to be honest and believable. Most people encounter people who use their outgoing personalities for crafty purposes, such as the stereotype of the used car salesman. This is why you have to be super vigilant to have some sort of code when dealing with people. For me, I was born with it. I am careful that I never lead people on, because they listen to my words and pay attention to what I have to say. I must respect people. So whether confidence or charm, you have to have respect for those who listen to you. I believe that you can learn it as well, try to take a few acting classes if you are interested, or taking a class in improv. Take care and have a wonderful day!
@Axai2012 (371)
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2 Aug 12
I think charm is determined by other people on how you affect them. You don't tell yourself you are charming unless somebody tells you that you are. I think charming is other's perspective of you of how you drive people to you with your attitude towards them. I hope that makes sense.
