Is love an adventure?

@paulli3 (312)
China
August 3, 2012 10:40am CST
love is an adventure, if you win, you will be together for a long time even all life. if you fail, you will lose her, ever she is closer than friends, but she can't be a friend if you fail. do you agree? please tell me what do you think, and share your answer with us, thank you very much have a nice day!
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12 responses
• Indonesia
5 Aug 12
I agree that, perhaps the core of what you say is a struggle. Maybe. But that's what I catch. if we can fight with all our capabilities, we can get past all the obstacles. And if we can not fight then we will be left behind and even left it. Do you mean like that? The point is where there is struggle there we get in return.
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• India
4 Aug 12
This is pretty much true that we lose a dear friend in process of creating a better relationship than friendship. If it fails to succeed both involved in it end up losing each other who eventually may have known each other quite well after being together in a relationship. There is no willingness to continue the friendship once relationship breaks. I think this is the saddest part.
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 12
love is something.. something in our life.. iam not sure that the true man perceptions about love is like adventure.. even they are failed in their love relationship, it is the destiny from God..they are seriously when making relationship with another people..
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@nnanduri (23)
5 Aug 12
Friendship is the basement for love life.But to love a person no need to be a friend.Love is not an adventure, its a commitment.If you have that, she is yours.You need to understand first that, she is not a woman of your love.She is the woman for your life.
• India
5 Aug 12
Great Response, I am completely agree with this
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
16 Aug 12
Love is definitely a adventure to me , with so much possibility . Love is never boring nor predictable, also a gamble and we have to always prepare to lose .
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 12
Love is something that is confusing. Because, love can make happy, but also can make us sad. What is the meaning of true love, I do not know. I can see of love, is something that is painful. Love is also a sacrifice.
@jakie18 (229)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
Love is an adventure in a way that you are searching for a perfect partner to be with in a lifetime (though perfect partner never really exist). When you found someone who was really meant for you both of you will have the same journey through life. Struggles, misunderstanding, happy moments will always be present in your relationship. It's an endless adventure of two lovers that is worth fighting for. And by the end of the day you can look back and recall all the great memories that you both been through.
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
Yes for me love is an adventure. You and your partner travel the same path of life and there are times that you will encounter obstacles. The most important things is that you value each one's opinion. If ever along the way one of you realizes that you think its better to take a path separately then that will be the time that the relationship failed. But it doesn't necessarily means that you cannot be friends. It depends on the reason why you are parting ways. There are times that difference in opinions/customs/traditions are the factors why the relationship failed. Those reasons doesn't make any of you a lesser person, it's just that nobody wants to compromise. Then I guess, you can still be friends. But if he cheats on you, then I guess you don't ever wanna be friends with him.
@tetris15 (540)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
It's the two people involve who makes the adventure. You could be in a relationship but not feeling the adventure because your partner is boring. You could be with a partner who's willing to do weird stuff and try things but you yourself don't want to try it. I don't think it will work if both of you don't even have a same interest. Finding and searching for someone is quite an adventure as well but it's only you who's feeling the thrills of it.
@natliegleb (5184)
• India
3 Aug 12
My dear that is quite common to have love as an adventure and i believe one must enjoy to the fullest and make it a nice experience to cherish,rather than derive hard feelings from it ,since we are here to please each other and share good times.so it has ups and downs too
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
3 Aug 12
Well i think love is not an adventure as people may think. i think love is the most beautiful feeling on earth and it is not always restricted to having a boyfriend or a girlfriend. it also means loving your friends and family members. So if you love some one deeply then it is never an adventure where you decide who is victorious or who is a failure. It should be enjoyed and should be kept intact.
@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
3 Aug 12
I think love is not an adventure. But people can make an adventure of love.