Why some parents commands their children to feel the same anger toward others. / myLot

Philippines

August 3, 2012 11:00am CST

Good day Fellow Mylotters, I can't really get the idea why some parents commands their children to feel the same anger towards their foe. Wherein, they tend to dictate their children to be angry to those people whom they are mad. As I cannot see any logic on this. Hence, they are just building an improper attitude and behavior on the kids. And when the kids asked why they should have do it, those parents will just say, "just follow the instruction or else I will spank you". Oh my, why they just can't simply rephrase some words then explain a bit to their child, so that the children will not grow with a hatred feeling.

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hsofyan

@hsofyan (3446)

• Jakarta, Indonesia

3 Aug 12

I think parents need to know about child psychology, in order to avoid negative impact on the mental development of children. Impact it would have formed a few years later. I believe that family is first and primary schools.

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@indahfth (11161)

• Indonesia

3 Aug 12

Yes. I very much agree with you. Because, my child get a negative impact, from what I have and his father did. Especially by his father, my son often scolded by his father, so now my son is also a frequent angry.

leighz

@leighz (456)

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3 Aug 12

That is the best example of bad parenting. Brainwashing your child will not do you good, because when the time comes that your child is able to understand the situation, then he or she may retaliate or feel indifferent towards you. I think those parents who do that are immature. Childhood is about making good memories and certainly these parents are not helping out. I hope they realize what they're doing is wrong as early as now.

subhojit10

@subhojit10 (7375)

• India

3 Aug 12

Well parents are children's first teachers and they need to teach and groom them in such a way that they can fight any challenges that come their way. Their grooming and initial upbringing is very crucial for their overall development. What say?