Did you ever get dumped or you were the one dumping?

@riyauro (6421)
India
August 4, 2012 12:01am CST
I have never been dumped by anyone in my life but I who ever my ex was or were...lol we just had a mutual understanding that it not going to work so we went out ways. It was not gonna work in the sense that our parents would not approve of it since He was from Yemen and they are very strict on whom one is getting married to. I have my father who told me I can choose anyone but I knew If it was a Christian than he will be happier. So here I am with a Christian. lol Have you been dumped ever or did you dump anyone? and Why?
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Aug 12
I have tried both situations. I have been dumped and I have dumped my partner. I dumped my partner after 3 years because he constantly lied to me. Sometimes he lied about small things that weren't really important, but it bothered me that I wasn't able to trust the things that he said. I got extremely skeptical after a while. One time he called me and said: "I am ill and I have been admitted to hospital" My normal reaction would have been: "Oh no, I hope it is nothing serious" but when he told me that he had been admitted to hospital I thought: "I wonder if it is true or just another story" I had become so used to all his lies that I simply couldn't trust him and eventually I had enough and broke up with him. My next boyfriend dumped me. We had been together for one year and I was about to move to his part of the country when he suddenly dumped me. He thought that our relationship was getting a little too serious and we wanted to keep his freedom. Unfortunately I had already been admitted to a school in his part of the country so I had to move to that area anymore. I was angry that he didn't break up earlier while I still had the chance to change my application, but it was too late, so I decided to look at it from a positive point of view and move to that area anyway.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
7 Aug 12
Oh good you have experienced both. It is true that lying makes it impossible to believe the partner. I can imagine you situation with him. Good you dumped him. The next boyfriend needed freedom which means he was not that into you, So it is okay that you broke up with him. Don't forget, that before you meet the prince you have to kiss many frogs. And these are just frogs. Prince is yet to come. have a wonderful day and thanks for sharing.
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@Mashnn (4501)
6 Aug 12
I have never been dumped but I have dumped some guys before. The reaons I did that was because I really did not feel that the person was right person for me to spend the rest of my life and I did not want to waste their time.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
7 Aug 12
Hmm okay. Yeah, the moment you come to know that this person is not right, you must back off. It is good what you did. have a wonderful day and thanks for sharing
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
4 Aug 12
In my life i have been on both the giving and receiving ends of dumping and being dumped in a relationship. I would have to say that no matter if you are the one being rejected or the one prompting the break it is hard to take any joy or happiness in the task.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
4 Aug 12
I understand, heart breaks in either situation. I is sad to separate from the person you have loved, no matter what reason it could be. but it hurts for sure. thanks for sharing. have a good day.
• Indonesia
4 Aug 12
Never in mylife dumped by any1. But I did dumping my ex for cheating. I found he cheated on me. He gave his chat account password to that girl and me and her chat by accident. he told me his sister will use her account for few days, before i chat with that girl. I didnt greet that girl when I saw her online using my ex account on chat room, but she greet because she saw me on his friend list. then we got to know he cheated on us. That girl want him to choose between me or her but I told her she can have him,, Im not into him ANYMORE I dumped him even before he asked for apology
@riyauro (6421)
• India
4 Aug 12
okay, that was very fast of you and I like it. It was lucky of you to find out this. thanks for sharing. have a wonderful day.
• Italy
4 Aug 12
I've always been the one to dump, except once when my boyfriend of four years dumped me and he did it over the web while we were chatting on Msn, it was actually disappointing because I felt useless. I thought that after four years and after all that I did for him (helped him gain back his self-esteem, gave him ospitality at my place for months because he hated his family ...) I thought he could have at least called me over the phone or spoken to me face to face, but he didn't. Actually, he dumped me saying he didn't want kids, didn't want to get marry and saying he was way too immature for me, too bad those were the things he said were the strength in our relationship (he was always saying he wanted to get married and have kids because he felt much more mature than his friends). We broke up and I was the one to suffer, although I knew I'd have been the one to dump him sooner or later, mostly because he was right when he said he is immature. Now I'm pretty much sure he misses when we used to be, I had other relationships over the years and he didn't, he hates his job and still has a hard time with his family but he cannot escape it just like he used to do in the past and at times I feel sorry for him. He lurks my twitter account and kinda answers and comments my tweets, but it's over.
• United States
14 Aug 12
Like you, I haven't been dumped by anybody. The only difference is that the reason why nobody dumps me is that I never had a boyfriend in my life aside from my husband now. I actually promised myself anyway that the first person I will go out with is the person I'm gonna be with for the rest of my life ;0