i hate listening to love songs

@iamJB7 (123)
Philippines
August 4, 2012 1:01am CST
That awkward moment when you're happy you enjoy the music. But when you're sad, you understand the lyrics. I really don't like listening to love songs cause it just reminds me of the past and it makes me sad. I just remembered how lonely I am when I'm not with him. I always cherished those moments when we we're still together. I don't want to feel this way anymore that's why I avoid listening love songs, and when neighbors play it and sounds were too loud. I really find a way to destruct myself from listening into it.
3 responses
@Mark72125 (136)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Aug 12
Wow so true, love songs can remind of our past in which we may have loved someone a lot and it might have not worked out.I wish there was a way to only play the songs someone wants to hear than random music hehe.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
I think you're right, when we feel so happy, we enjoy listening to a lot of songs. We love listening to different kinds of music, especially love songs. I agree with you. I understand you when you said you don't like listening to love songs when you are sad. That also happened to me, many times. When I had some terrible fights with my boyfriend, I also didn't like to listen my favorite love songs. I think listening to them would hurt me more. I would think of the times when we were so happy together. I would ask myself, what went wrong. So, if I'm feeling so sad, I also get rid of listening to love songs. I couldn't relate with them. I don't like to be lonelier. I don't like to cry a lot anymore. I think what you're doing is just okay. Maybe you should move on. Listen to some happy songs, like danceable music. In time, if you are able to move on already, you will have the courage again to listen to those love songs. Before, there were some songs I hated listening to. Now, I think I don't care so much of the past anymore. At times, I can already listen to them, without covering my ears, unlike before. :)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 12
It's really a frustrating thing if we listen to love songs and songs such as representing the feelings of our love, and will be more pain if we listen to love songs that melow and sad when we're sad. But what also seems to mw like love songs are difficult to remove because from there we could feel the state of our own hearts.