"My Husband is Gay!"
By Raine38
@Raine38 (12257)
United States
August 9, 2012 6:00am CST
Well not mine, those were my friend's words that she fired at me without preamble, she let that one out as soon as I picked up the phone. And…I wasn't able to say anything, no advise, no nothing. I'm just as shock as she is. She can't seem to decide if she will stay with him or not. They don't have a kid yet so I guess it makes their situation a little easier…but how, I don't know.
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@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
9 Aug 12
I just don't understand why the guy married her, let alone started a relationship with her if he wasn't in love. Maybe he wasn't sure if he was gay, but still, gays do not love women. I think there's no reason for her to stay with him, unless she does not want a love marriage but more of a reliance of trust and a steady life.
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
9 Aug 12
I actually haven't gotten the whole story from her. But from the sound of it, she is very sure. She had confirmed it and they already had the talk. The one that confirms her husband's sexuality. I just don't get it, how did that ever slip to her, and how come she married someone she didn't know very well.
Is it true, that only another gay can "sniff out" a gay in a closet?
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@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I think any lady knowing that they married a gay would really be devastated and their dreams would be torn to pieces. Its good thing that she found it earlier to somehow lessen the burden of continuing their relationship.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I guess your friend was just disgusted to the outcome of her marriage that she claimed her husband was a gay person.No gay person ever proposed marriage to a girl if he is likening a man instead of a woman.What is the purposed of courtship if she found out he was gay?In that stage of their relationship she can already detect his softness to his love but why did she found out the late time already? What a shame!!!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
10 Aug 12
I have a older sister I remember back when I was younger and still in school one year we went out to alabama to see my brother my sister met this guy they dated for a while and decided to get married well they got married and moved to colorado and when she did she called my parents one day and said come get me they said whats wrong she said he is gay she came home from shopping one day early and he was in the bedroom with a guy she had no clue he was gay up til that day they say there is signs but she never saw any.
