How to make sure if someone really loves you

China
August 11, 2012 4:02am CST
Are there some ways to make sure if the one around you is really love you.You know what it makes me confused,sometimes they treat us good,take care about us,want to chat with me every moment,but sometimes they can ignore us all day,don't call me,when I chat with him,he don't reply me times by times,and even don't want to talk with me.Do you meet the same man like me?Every time when he treats me so cold,I can't believe he is the man I love,or I'm the one he love.Confused me,what is your boyfriend like?And what is the man really like in their life?
4 responses
• China
11 Aug 12
i think a man who love you will always want to talk with you,even he is busy,he would hold on otherthings to reply you.i don't know why your boyfriend is so odd.
• China
11 Aug 12
Thank you for your reply.This is my first time use with mylot.Yeah,I think the same with you,I think if the man really love one,will want to talk with her every day.And I'm sure that your boyfriend must be love you so much and you talk happily.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
12 Aug 12
It's hard to tell from what you have said. Perhaps you catch him when he is busy? For example, I can't talk while I'm at work. Because I'm at work. Or perhaps I am with other people. I can't talk when I'm with other people. That's how it is. It's rude to be with other people, and ignoring all of them, to chat on the phone. That's horribly rude. If I came by your home, and we went out to eat, and your boy friend called you on the phone... that would be rude to ignore me your friend, while you chat on the phone. There is however, another possibility. Perhaps he's just not interested in you like you think he is. Maybe he likes you, but just not as much as you like him. It's possible he's letting you know that you need to move on, and find someone else.
@GemmaR (8517)
11 Aug 12
I can always tell when people are telling the truth about their feelings for me, and because of this I can tell within the first few weeks of a relationship whether it is going to be worth my time or not. You have to think about the future and if you're with somebody who doesn't love you, then there isn't much point staying with them. If your partner is just thinking about the physical aspect of the relationship then it's probably more about lust for them, however if they're doing things to help you out to show you that they actually care, then this is possibly more about love.
@neorich7 (19)
• Guatemala
11 Aug 12
you will know only with the time sooner or later you will what king person you're dealing with. The more time you spend in a couple the more will see if is the correct person. SO MY ANSWER IS TIME EITHER FOR A SHORT TIME OR A LONG TIME SO DO NOT HESITATE AND THINK BEFORE YOU TAKE A DECISSION